@laurakm Just wait until you learn how #OpenBSD's #spamd #greylister contends with e.g. gmail.

You may gain perspective that MUCH (Most? All?) of the so-called surveillance capitalist driven "commercial" internet, is actually:

Dastardly

Vile.

Time Bandits levels of "IT'S EVIL! DON'T TOUCH IT!"

Thankfully, the internet was not founded on such principals, & exists despite the bad actors.

But at what cost?

Be careful, I refer you to #雲に糸「kumo no ito」(The Spider's Thread) for further reading.