I love and dislike this article. https://mashable.com/article/kinktok-tiktok-kink-community

On the one hand, it correctly flags kink & sex censorship being a huge part of the misinformation phenomenon. @sunnymegatron is being awesome as per usual. But it is bandwagoning "new thing bad" as evident with the comparison to #50Shades, and ignoring the call is coming from inside the house. It wasn't better or safer in newsgroups, through back pages, or in forums/chat from my youth.

It's also a sort of pearl clutching I find frustrating. Can things go wrong with bondage? Sure, but there's a trend in kink culture of nitpicking not in support of, but against, as a form of social participation but also prestige seeking. It's explicitly part of the scene to seek real power and recognition through being an educator, and I have gotten way too much abuse from alleged experts and luminaries to trust "concerns" unilaterally. ++

Look, Erik AKA The Phantom Of The Opera might be a kidnapper, murderer, & liar, but he's still WAY less toxic & abusive than Edward Cullen & Christian Grey. (Hell, he's less toxic than Raoul who's a gaslighting prick in the novel.)
#ThePhantomOfTheOpera #Twilight #50Shades

#humor #welder #50shades

50 shades of white

#Fundafun #Funda #goedemorgen #goedemiddag #Nederland #vastgoed #woning #wit #50shades #DenHaag #beige

https://www.funda.nl/koop/den-haag/appartement-88434150-valkenboskade-168/

Apologies in advanced if this is too jarring (probably should have done a content warning) but in addition to wearing a dark gray shirt, underneath it is a LIGHT gray shirt popping through. Yes, I’m this provocative on a Monday. #gray #50shades #dazzle

Fuck, there are two more of these? #50Shades

Fuck, now I wanna watch X-men. #50Shades

This movie is so Twilight fanfic it hurts. And yeah, it hurts. #50Shades

Christian: So, is he your boyfriend?
Ana: Who, Jose?
Me: No way!

#50Shades

The roommate's flu went away faster than Jubilee's accent in the first X-men movie. #50Shades