Hugs4friends ♾ · @Tooden
755 followers · 12275 posts · Server aus.social

@qlp Family 'should' be those to whom you can confide, but I have found it is the opposite. My parents were of the 'get over it' age. My sibs were no more receptive to any tale of woe...and still aren't.
No wonder late-dxed autists are reticent. We're forced into keeping everything bottled up, even once we know why we're such odd ducks. I have 'found' my people online, most especially here on Mastodon. The is receptive, and welcoming to , , and folk. It's lovely😊❤ @pathfinder @matty

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A week on since my doctor agreed to refer me for an assessment, I’m still processing what this means. I’ve told my work and some select friends but I’m not ready to tell my family yet. Not until I know what the future holds.

I suspect that the here on Masto will prove invaluable over time. A shame that my writing has dried up but I have a lot of reading to do about my own mental health so it’ll have to wait.

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Aaron · @hosford42
356 followers · 2250 posts · Server techhub.social

A reminder for parents of kids: If you want to understand your child's experiences and provide the support they need, one of your best resources is the online . Medical professionals and other non-autistic parents can never give you an inside view of what it's like to be us, what we need, how we think, or what we feel. Talk to to understand your .



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Johnny Profane Âû · @johnnyprofane1
1150 followers · 186 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

So happy to take part in UN World Autism Awareness Day 2023!

A revolution in awareness is sweeping the globe. We ARE the change we want to see.

Tried to shake things up on the art panel...

Discover the beauty of neurodiverse talent at Transformation: Towards a Neuro-inclusive world for all - Sunday, 2nd April. Register now at ow.ly/39rO50Nn6WK

Video on birdsite:
twitter.com/ION_Diversity/stat

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has done its course in my life, it was only Neurodiversity that made make any sense at all to me.

Actually before I even heard that word "Neurodiversity" I met very individuals in the .

I met them. I had to determine myself if Autism was a real thing or not. and !

Personal encounters with many individuals fueled my in autism and as I met more and more I started to be able to identify neurotypes.
Everything starts with "is this person like me? Why or why not? In which ways is this person like me and in which ways is this person not like me? Does this person think like me or just happens they now have some similar interests but interests come and go right?".

When you think you are an .

"Person A reminded me about person S whom I met at that other autism encounter if I remember, hmm" and then "Person G also reminds me about person A".
!
!

When I got there was nothing really special about the aside from them finding that I belong to a .

The current though lacks the ability to tell what I am, which is bad! My unique is .

is about expanding and apparently there is about this yet.
Just and we don't even know who is out there with a of .

We in the are the to find them a solution and find us() a solution to . .

The Neurodiversity movement's stepping stone is neurotypes and the lack of knowledge in that area is , makes us weaker.

Hope escapes us last though.

I have hope and belief in that the Neurodiversity Movement is going to find a way, some of you out there will find a solution one day which we are all gonna enjoy.

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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1631 followers · 1585 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@ReimanSaara Agree with this. I see it played out at the Book Club, it really doesn't come up (unless necessary) what people 'do', it doesn't really matter. It's what people think that we care about.

It's fascinating because with NT's one of the first things they ask is 'What do you do?' so they can pigeon hole you in the hierarchy.

I love our egalitarianism!

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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1612 followers · 1565 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

I have a To-Do List which I’m not going to complete before the op.

‘Paint & Tidy entire house’ isn’t going to be achievable in 4 weeks. This is stressing me.

There is a lot written about in the but not so much about surgery.

I fear that talking about this will be seen as a ‘downer’ but I want to be authentic.

I’m always telling others not to feel like they’re ‘Too Much’, but here I am, feeling like I’m ‘too much’.

A thread...

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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1595 followers · 1537 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@kctipton @actuallyautistic @bookstodon I’ve found it, it’s an app where anyone can upload their book club details.

I couldn’t actually find a book club on Fable that is for members and is but that doesn’t mean there isn’t another one!

There is such a lack of free support for the community, let alone BIPOC I can only hope there will be dozens of Book clubs (and other kinds of clubs) for us soon!

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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1570 followers · 1532 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

Does an that is international & free sound good to you? 📚

All leaders & members will be from Communities &

The Book Club would have monthly zoom meets & read the same books as the

(‘Autizzy Book Club’ is a place holder name, members can decide the final name!) 😄

DM me on Insta if interested or for more details 🌈 ♾️

instagram.com/autisticbookclub

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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1565 followers · 1518 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@JurassNic It would be interesting for me to know if anyone else was like me?

Unlike so many others I did not attract a group of undiagnosed neurodivergent friends, instead I battled through neurotypical friendships that crashed & burned. This made me feel so broken and 'odd', it was very distressing.

I think that's why I love the so much, because when I finally met other people, it was like coming home!

Anyone else?


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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1565 followers · 1518 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@btaroli @actuallyautistic I find it really hard to articulate things sometimes, I know what I want to say, but when I put it into words it sometimes communicates a different meaning.

What I guess I feel uncomfortable with, is the emerging appearance of hierarchy within the (Maybe I'm imagining it, Idk...!)

It isn't about pulling anyone down, but raising all up?

I think that's what I'm trying to say!

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✭King✭Therapy✭ · @KingTherapy
322 followers · 11561 posts · Server jorts.horse
Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1506 followers · 1417 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@setmeravelles I can relate.

I think it is probably something many of us in the feel.

You're not alone x

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jlizhenry · @jlizhenry
250 followers · 677 posts · Server writing.exchange
Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1454 followers · 1317 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@drandrewv2 I agree, well said!

You're right, there are so many of us! Especially within the

I also prefer and a strict routine. After and I have found what works for me, and like you, I don't eat the same as my family anymore and no-one has a problem with it!

Thank-you for sharing and your honesty, it's good to know I'm not alone. 💗


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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1446 followers · 1301 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@TeacherGriff @Supposenot @actuallyautistic of 'The Looming Deadline'. If we have a 'looming deadline' we cannot think about anything else!

If the child knows they have to return to education in 6 months, there will be no rest, because the deadline is barrelling down towards them.

The best thing you can do is say, 'Rest, recuperate, recover' let them find out who they are and what they want to do. This may look 'unproductive' from the outside, but they are healing.

2/2

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Autistic Book Club · @autisticbookclub
1391 followers · 1236 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk

@btaroli @ThatPrivacyGuy @neil Agreed Bill! I must admit 'social' is not a word I would ever apply to myself!

But Mastodon, more so than the other place, is allowing me to connect with others of my for which I am very grateful.

I have never felt so free to share my thoughts as I do here, and amazingly people respond, which has been so touching.

Thank-you everyone and I hope your Christmas / holiday season is restful - From Isolation Day 10 of Covid!

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