@BlinkPopShift @actuallyautistic I think tasks are our biggest issue. My entire #AutisticFamily have #DemandAvoidance including me. We have not worked this out yet! We haven't had the successes that you all seem to have had, our main issue is #AutisticExhaustion

When we have tasks we can't avoid (like work) we expend our energy on them, then when we come home we leave the things we can avoid, like #cooking #chores

However they usually fall to me to do
#DivisionOfLabour #AutisticRelationship

@BlinkPopShift I am also in an #ActuallyAutistic couple, my husband and I didn't know we were both #Autistic when we met, but in hindsight, there were obvious traits which drew us together!

I'm quite sure that our #AutisticRelationship doesn't look like a typical NT relationship in many ways, but it works well (most of the time) but can also be exhausting and challenging.

Can you expand on, "how do you manage varying levels of #DemandAvoidance "

My kids are also Autistic!
@actuallyautistic