proudnb · @proudnb
505 followers · 1791 posts · Server todon.nl

Pick your battles as a nonbinary person.

It's unlikely that you'll convince every bigoted person you come across to accept that nonbinary people deserve human rights.

Save your strength for the ones you have a chance at convincing.

#Activism #bigotry #exorsexism #NonBinary #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
505 followers · 1791 posts · Server todon.nl

Perhaps things have not gotten "better" for you just yet as a nonbinary person.

While life may remain hard, the strength that you have and the wisdom you derive from this struggle will be a benefit to yourself and the nonbinary community.

You're a gift to us all now and in the future.

#NonBinaryPride #exorsexism #NonBinary #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
499 followers · 1766 posts · Server todon.nl

You don't have to be consistently "feminine" or "masculine" in your appearance as a nonbinary person if you don't want to be. You don't have to engage with either at all.

Those categories are very subjective and flexible for us. Bend and mix them for your use. Invent something new.

#NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity #genderbinary #style #appearance

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proudnb · @proudnb
499 followers · 1766 posts · Server todon.nl

Do whatever kind of work you need to do in order to survive.

There's a lot of talk about good, bad, proper, skilled, and "unskilled," jobs out there.

Employment is already tough enough for nonbinary (and other lgbtq) people without worrying about what entails an acceptable kind of work.

Do what you want or whatever you can to bring in the cash you need.

#work #employment #jobs #NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
486 followers · 1729 posts · Server todon.nl

Your existence as a nonbinary person is extremely important.

Unfortunately, your life is also a war, and every day you survive is a battle won against extremists. They would rather reduce humanity to fit their own small and fearful imaginings, than embrace the beauty in all of us.

I know that you didn't ask for this. I don't want a fight, either. At this point, however, it's our gift to the future to keep living and sharing who we are as nonbinary individuals.

Demonstrate that people are wild, wonderful, and complete as we are.

#Activism #exorsexism #NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
486 followers · 1727 posts · Server todon.nl

You might not be where you had hoped at this point in your life.

Being nonbinary can throw a wrench into many plans or at least make them more complicated. Even if discrimination is somehow not a factor, issues with employment, health, relationships, etc. are only ever partially under your control.

Remember that you're more than a series of goals to be crossed off a list.

#lifepositivity #NonBinary #exorsexism #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
481 followers · 1718 posts · Server todon.nl

You could be out for years as a nonbinary person and still have yet to truly embrace yourself.

There are always new ways to love yourself, and the process of discovering them is usually invisible to the outside world.

Take the time to question and learn more, if you can.

#selflove #NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
480 followers · 1709 posts · Server todon.nl

It's fine to be nonbinary and enjoy the nightlife and a busy week. It's also fine to appreciate time at home and the quiet. You might also like a balance of things.

So, celebrate pride month in whatever way suits you best, because all ways are good.

#NonBinary #pridemonth #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

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proudnb · @proudnb
500 followers · 1700 posts · Server todon.nl

Create what you need to create as a nonbinary person. The hangups of society censor you enough as it is without letting it into your mind as well.

We need what you make. The world needs your perspective.

#exorsexism #NonbinaryCreators #NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

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proudnb · @proudnb
501 followers · 1690 posts · Server todon.nl

Nonbinary people have always had a presence in the many other branches of the queer/lgbtq community.

There have always been nonbinary lesbians, gay people, trans people, asexuals, bisexuals, and so many more.

To disparage any of those groups is to speak ill of nonbinary people. To scorn nonbinary people is to also hold any of those groups in contempt.

To have one you must be willing to accept the other.

#lgbtq #NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
502 followers · 1684 posts · Server todon.nl

Nonbinary creatives, craftspeople, performers, etc., thanks for adding your unique flare to the world.

More importantly, thanks for enriching the lives of other nonbinary people with your gifts.

#NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
499 followers · 1673 posts · Server todon.nl
proudnb · @proudnb
499 followers · 1669 posts · Server todon.nl

It took time and tremendous work to realize that you are nonbinary.

You know better than anyone the path that lead you here, and your reasons for traversing it.

So, don't let others analyze your gender for you. Don't let others "explain" your motivations and process of self discovery.

You will always know yourself best in this. You are the one living your life, after all.

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#NonBinary #genderquestioning #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryPositivity

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proudnb · @proudnb
499 followers · 1667 posts · Server todon.nl

Making a place for yourself as a nonbinary person in many of today's societies is difficult.

Jobs, family roles, even hobbies all tend to be gendered, which isn't very helpful for anyone and it's easy to get lost trying to navigate it.

Things might be messy now, but in time you will find your way.

Take your time in working out your life. There's no rush.

#nonbinaypride #NonBinary #genderbinary #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
498 followers · 1665 posts · Server todon.nl

Being nonbinary is beautiful and natural. Embrace it like you would the unique beauty of a rainy evening.

Because both, though under appreciated, are more than deserving of it.

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#rain #NonBinary #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryPositivity

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proudnb · @proudnb
498 followers · 1664 posts · Server todon.nl

Body hair can only enhance your presentation.

Body hair can be gentle, soft, and delicate.

It can be rugged, imposing, and even beastly.

It can be simply there in all its fuzzy, unpredictable glory.

Body hair is exactly what you make of it in regards to your presentation, because it’s another aspect of you.

Nothing more, and nothing less.

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#genderpresentation #bodyhair #NonBinary #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryPositivity #nonbinarybodypositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
497 followers · 1659 posts · Server todon.nl

It's alright to be poor and nonbinary.

You need few resources to make an impact that is completely unique to you.

#NonBinary #nonbinaypride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
497 followers · 1652 posts · Server todon.nl

Being nonbinary in today's various societies may have left you with some form of trauma due to bigotry, etc.

Taking time to learn and/or heal the pain is worth the effort even if it takes time.

Be gentle with yourself.

#exorsexism #NonBinary #trauma #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
492 followers · 1645 posts · Server todon.nl

Nonbinary people have always existed and built lives across the world regardless of how safe its been for us.

Even if the political climate gets worse (or better) in our respective homes, we will always be there for each other.

We will continue to thrive.

#exorsexism #NonBinary #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago

proudnb · @proudnb
496 followers · 1638 posts · Server todon.nl

Different nonbinary people have different pasts just like everyone. Still, your experiences may stand out even among other nonbinary people.

It's tough to feel different again after finding what you thought were similar people.

It's a big world out there and you may yet find those more like you. If not, you can try to build something new with unlike people that you can share in together.

#relationships #loneliness #NonBinary #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryPositivity

Last updated 1 year ago