I don't have a lightning node, but I've been coding lightning network transfers for while now. So I've tested a handful of wallets, and in my experience #breez and #walletofsatoshi were the easiest to get up working on android.
@alby has the easiest by far for desktop use. They call it a podcaster wallet, but anyone can get one. Completely separate from their browser extension. Provides a lightning address which works with keysend and LNurl payments.
https://getalby.com/podcast-wallet