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Tamlin :heart_nb: · @Tamlinrose

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It’s not a side identity, or an identity that needs to make it’s own space outside of queerness (though people are welcome to do so if they choose). It’s inherent to queer structures that not everyone wants to be in the same kind of partnerships, and creating your own or choosing none at all has been done by allo queer people forever as a primary form of resistance, so to say that #acearo spec people who embody that form of resistance aren’t #queer is messed up

#acearo #queer

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Tamlin :heart_nb: · @Tamlinrose

38 followers · 192 posts · Server mastodon.lol

If you consider queerness as anything that deviates from the expectations of a monogamous cishet nuclear family set up (which I do but that’s just for me personally) than ace and aro identities fall under that because it is absolutely deviating from that set up to not desire the same sexual or romantic affiliation that ‘most’ people do. It is queer to desire different set ups for your relationships. It’s queer to want a QPR. acearo-ness is queer #acearo #asexual #queer