Adoptees Unite · @adopteesunite
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Good afternoon fellow adoptees!! Adoptees Unite will be hosting a networking event Sunday, September 3rd from 1600 hrs | 4pm EDT - 1700 hrs | 5pm EDT. Event will be on Zoom. We hope you'll consider joining us. Register below -- the event is free.

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Last updated 1 year ago

Adoptees Unite · @adopteesunite
39 followers · 18 posts · Server mas.to

Adoptees Unite is now offering FREE coaching sessions for adoptees!! Please see our Instagram [linked in our bio here] for more information or to sign up.

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Last updated 1 year ago

Adoptees Unite · @adopteesunite
38 followers · 14 posts · Server mas.to

We're delighted to announce that Adoptees Unite will be joining Korean-German adoptee, SunMee in creating a FREE space to discuss adoptee mental health & healing. Please learn more in the cards below. We're happy to answer any questions you may have, & hope to see you there.

Sign up via the link below:

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Last updated 1 year ago

Boots Chantilly · @BootsChantilly
1459 followers · 1964 posts · Server mstdn.social
greeen · @greeen
1060 followers · 1642 posts · Server sfba.social

"In order to be adopted you first have to lose your entire family," Deanna Doss Shrodes says.

newyorker.com/magazine/2023/04

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Last updated 2 years ago

MJ · @MJ
228 followers · 1424 posts · Server helvede.net

One of the most frequent questions I get, when I talk about is, "But what is the alternative to adoption?" It's a weird one, because it's a bit like asking, "But what is the alternative to child trafficking?" The alternative is to not traffick children.

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Last updated 2 years ago

greeen · @greeen
1044 followers · 1521 posts · Server sfba.social
greeen · @greeen
1042 followers · 1488 posts · Server sfba.social

This is the only poem I remember from my teenage journals. I burned them all when I was in college. It's short and to the point.
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i lie awake in bed at night
and fear my capabilities
moonlight creeps through the window blinds
that flutter in the breeze
i need someone to cure my fright
to hold my knocking knees
to fill the hollow in my heart
that no one ever sees

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Last updated 2 years ago

Ainebet · @ainebet
136 followers · 848 posts · Server sfba.social

Texting both my adoptive sister and biological sister tonight, and I'm so grateful. 🍀

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Last updated 2 years ago

greeen · @greeen
1031 followers · 1396 posts · Server sfba.social

evidence of my distriction

i'm wearing one earring
can't remember if i took
my pills

papers pile up
some bills something something
i'm navel gazing again
having been put out
still looking for a nonexistent
way back in

words are too hard
for the softer world
the world is too sharp
for the tender heart

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Last updated 2 years ago

Ainebet · @ainebet
100 followers · 559 posts · Server sfba.social

Going to a new doctor today, and for the first time ever, I'll be able to answer questions about my family medical history. I turn 41 next month.

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Last updated 2 years ago

Ainebet · @ainebet
65 followers · 256 posts · Server sfba.social

1 year ago today, I found out who my dad is. Nearly 40 years after I was born, we finally got to meet each other. Thank goodness for DNA testing. I'm so blessed.

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Last updated 2 years ago

MJ · @MJ
185 followers · 696 posts · Server helvede.net

@ainebet As someone who was transnationally adopted from Korea, at 5 months old or so, I get asked if I speak Korean or remember anything from my time in Korea.

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Last updated 2 years ago

Ainebet · @ainebet
44 followers · 150 posts · Server sfba.social

Ok so since nobody asked anything yet, let me start - - what is a question people ask you often, that you wish you didn't have to answer? Like, what's something that you wish everyone already knew by now, because it's so obvious to us but non-adopted people don't seem to get it?

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Last updated 2 years ago