The mom roommate who never took full responsibility for her cat blamed her daughter for the poor care taking and her ex boyfriend who gave her the cat. When her cat had kittens, she had her 10 year old take full responsibility. She had to beg me for food and kitty litter. One day the garage reach 30% F, dangerous conditions for kittens. When I placed the kittens in the laundry room, the kid became angry. She's a;ways been an adult and doesn't know how not to be. #parentified #adultified #abuse