Asking #allistic about #autism is like asking fishes about #Birdism: being scared about breathing under water. Ducks are highfunctioning-birds and hummingbirds low-functioning.

Because they judge "functioning" by the ability to accept having the head under water. The longer, the more functioning.

Showing fear of drowing is a symptom, that can be reduced by exposing the bird to water again and again. The best way to (dis)solve the problem, is to "teach" the bird to be under water.

#allistic internet boys are annoying. Start chatting on app A. Ask to shift to app B. OK. Start chatting on app B. I fail to reply after a few minutes in app B, as i was in the restroom. Find several posts in app A asking where I am have I disappeared!?

:-|

Block in both aps, perma delete chat in app B for both parties. Stop being annoying.

#ActuallyAutistc

This sounds like #Allistic culture to me...

"If it helps achieve a particular benefit such as unity of the Muslims, then it is argued that this is a worthy objective, which should take precedence over individual conviction. The argument presupposes that:

a) difference of opinion on a fiqh matter is harmful,

b) differences cannot be resolved by strength of evidence,

c) practical unity is more important than the truth.

This view is highly problematic, as it is actually a liberal secular criteria and has no basis in Islam. It stands in contradiction to the teachings of the Messenger of Allah (saw) and the practice of the Sahabah when the differed. It makes benefit the real criteria, even if past #Fiqh is sometimes used to narrow the range of options. It makes the ends a justification for the means.

It results in #Muslims no longer struggling for the truth of what pleases Allah based upon His own words, but seeking compromise instead."

https://www.hizb.org.uk/islamic-culture/pragmatic-moon-sighting/

From 18 Apr: Just Because The World Wasn’t Built For You Doesn’t Mean You Have To Change - I believe in the inherent worth of human beings, regardless of someone’s social position or productive potential. https://ideatrash.net/2023/04/just-beause-the-world-wasnt-built-for-you-doesnt-mean-you-have-to-change.html #discrimination #diversity #education #mental-health #psychology #aba-therapy #allistic #autism #neurodivergence #neurospicy

I just mean: #allistic people call #autistic people rude for just telling what they genuinely think, and of course this can appear so for us (allistic) at first bc we’re not used to, but at the same time the way we warp meanings just to act polite is often just exhausting to understand. Just tell me
“Please bring a lasagna”
“We’re coming to your house next time”
“I’m ok on splitting the check”
“Yes your lasagna sucks”
Jesus

@MindfulnessBelle @actuallyautistic 🤣🤣 I just disable the stream of consciousness filter until they get that anxious flight response look. Ah! My work is done here. #ActuallyAutistic

It reminds me of one of my favorite expressions. “If that thing I said scares you, just remember that my filter works.”

Or “Are you REALLY sure you want me to answer that?” Most only make this error once. If they do it again I don’t stop to ask.

I use these as #allistic #training aids. 🤣🤣

12 things to know about allistics.

I love this description of "allistic spectrum disorder"

"It affects 99 out of 100 people in the UK. allistics are very different from one another, when you have met one allistic you have met one allistic. Everyone is an individual. No two people with the condition are the same.

" People with the disorder speak in code. They say one thing, but mean something completely different.

" Allistics may ask unnecessary questions that they don’t want an honest answer to. They might ask, “Do I look fat?” And they want you to answer ‘No’. Those of us who don’t suffer from the condition know that it’s pointless to ask a question if you’re not going to accept the truth but allistics struggle to understand this concept.

#autism #allistic

https://www.alexlowery.co.uk/12-things-to-know-about-nts-non-autistic-people/

@danseurignoble I’m sorry, but I refuse that #allistic #delay label. Compared to who? Ugh. Yes we #neurodivergent folks do things differently but that never diminishes us. That’s accomplished by allistics that insist the world in theirs and only their perspective matters. #BULLSHIT! #ActuallyAustistic #AutisticAF

You adult at whatever pace is relevant to and healthy for you. ❤️

Looking forward to #Allistic Awareness Month 👍

https://psychcentral.com/blog/aspie/2018/09/allism-spectrum-disorders-a-parody#Allism

@RaulKrauthausen
Als #actuallyautistic treffe ich regelmäßig auf so etwas.
Sobald das Wort #Autismus fällt, glauben allistische (= nicht-autistisch) Menschen, limitieren, bewerten und formen zu können.

Es kommt nicht mehr darauf an, was wir sagen, sondern nur, dass wir wiederholen, was ein Allist gesagt hat. Egal wie gut unsere Argumente sind.

Ich bezeichne das als #allistic #Bias. Es wird ein Bild geschaffen, das kein Allist erreichen kann und daran werden wir gemessen und bewertet.

As an #ActuallyAutistic woman I have inordinate fear of losing my very reliable cleaning person. Just heard back from her, and all's well for now, thank you God.

I can cook for myself without much ado, but I've always been bad at cleaning, and my poor cleaning jobs take me twice as long as they do an #Allistic person. Good idea to farm out the work, for #SelfCare .

#ActivitiesOfDailyLiving #Disability #Autism

@actuallyautistic

You know that we #actuallyautistic are blamed to lack the ability to feel empathy. That #allistic people are so emphatic and a role model for us.

But, how is it possible that three male allistic adults SIT on a ten yera old autistic child crying "I can not breath!"? And more that five allistics look at this scene without helping a little autistic child?

Aren't we human beings to them?

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A great summary of some communication difficulties #actuallyautistic and #Neurodivergent people face in an an #allistic and #neurotypical world. Written by @mnl https://the.scapegoat.dev/autistic-people-cant-acknowledge-when-they-are-wrong/ @actuallyautistic

@ashleyspencer @ReimanSaara @actuallyautistic The most important part of our finding each other is understanding our own #diversity and giving each other #space to BE #different and accepted, where the #allistic world demands #conformity and #compliance. We simply can’t do that in all ways at all times, and it drains us to #mask for them. We need #safe, comfortable, #accepting spaces outside that #intolerant world. #actuallyautistic

"Allistic" is a term that is sometimes used to describe people who are not on the autism spectrum. It is derived from the word "allos," which means "other" or "different." Some people in the autistic community use the term "allistic" to highlight the differences between neurotypical ways of thinking and being and autistic ways of thinking and being. #allistic #autism #neurodiversity

@shaun Wait. So #neurodivergent people, including #actuallyautistic people, are the next group to be targeted for #extrrmination by #normal #allistic #neurotypical types? Won’t they first have to ensure everyone is assessed? And won’t that expose the NT fallacy?

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#WeWorkRemotely still hasn't fixed this BS of encouraging employers to make logically impossible claims.

I've come to realize this is just #allistic bullshit and what it really means is "open to" not "only"

This continues to not be hard people. Say what you mean, not what you ... assume people will misread in the way you hoped.

I've sent a support email about this, but as I did so I started to think that maybe the Job posters aren't misinterpreting the UI. MAYBE they are using it correctly, but the people who created the UI are just #Allistic and don't understand that they're encouraging posters to make impossible claims on their posts. I see so many like this that are "X only" for a whole series of mutually incompatible places. This job can't possibly be for Americas only AND Europe Only.

#ActuallyAutistic

I know gatekeeping is bad and all but seeing #allistic people try and “paint the #autistic experience” angers me beyond words. I came across a video like that recently on YouTube shorts and I was livid when I found out he was allistic. Even worse when I saw how the comment section was treating the #actuallyautistic people who were upset by it. The video used the puzzle piece symbol and his description of autism was far too simple, especially how he described the spectrum.

@redsage these sorts of exercises - ugh. Fucking sadistic games. Deriving from a misery-inducing #allistic normativity.