@audhd I have been told this is terrible marketing, and I agree, but my readers and I have some things in common. We are likely , some of our e-mails are stuffed, and we may be low on spoons because of . @actuallyautistic @Adhdinos

#audhd #burnout #audhdburnout

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Pam · @thepamcakez
92 followers · 143 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

When you're broke but went out of your way to help ensure everybody got what was on their mandatory xmas wish list but they gifted like they never even saw yours (wrong gifts, wrong sizes no receipts, and just canceling a medical bill “iou” through a note inside a money card that they well knew I was never going to be able to pay back anyways) 😑🥺

#knewiwasstruggling #dysfunctionalfamily #shitparenting #AuDHD #audhdburnout #adhd #actuallyautistic #petty #adultadhd #adultautism #adultaudhd #merryxmas #happyholidays #hurt #doublestandard #invalidatingparents #trumpsupportingboomers #struggling #donationsstillcrucial #icouldvepaidbills #whatsthepoint #makeitmakesense #LateDX #SelfDx

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
92 followers · 142 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

When you're broke but went out of your way to help ensure everybody got what was on their mandatory amas wish list but they gifted like they never even saw yours (wrong gifts, wrong sizes no receipts, and just canceling a medical bill “iou” through a note inside a money card that they well knew I was never going to be able to pay back anyways) 😑🥺

#knewiwasstruggling #dysfunctionalfamily #shitparenting #AuDHD #audhdburnout #adhd #actuallyautistic #petty #adultadhd #adultautism #adultaudhd #merryxmas #happyholidays #hurt #doublestandard #invalidatingparents #trumpsupportingboomers #struggling #donationsstillcrucial #icouldvepaidbills #whatsthepoint #makeitmakesense

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
89 followers · 134 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

Posted an update on this morning. Thank you to anyone who has donated so far and/or just showed their support. Still have a little ways to go so please donate if you can. Every little bit counts. Posting my Linktree down below here which has both the gofundme link and my CashApp on it if that’s easier or more comfortable.
linktr.ee/thepamcakez
Thanks again for all the help guys! 💚

#gofundme #MutualAid #neurospicy #toxicworklife #underpaidoverworked #AuDHD #audhdburnout #adhd #adhdadult #actuallyautistic #actuallyautisticadult #LateDX #SelfDx #struggling #makeitmakesense #makeaccommodationsaccessible #audhdadult #neurotypicalprivilegeisreal #pleasedonate

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
79 followers · 121 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

It’s 3am and I just vomited my 4pm early dinner of safe food into my sink. Which was one of the few if not only real meals I had yesterday. I keep coughing like in a fit and bits of vomit come up and then I have to swallow hard to get it to go back down otherwise it’ll end up on my pillow. Fck.

#AuDHD #audhdburnout #stomachprobldms #foodproblems #insomnia #heartburn

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
79 followers · 120 posts · Server neurodifferent.me
Pam · @thepamcakez
79 followers · 119 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

I wasn’t going to do this because I didn’t feel I was struggling badly enough to ask for this level of help - but fck the internalized ableism. gofund.me/1076dbfa

#MutualAidRequest #gofundme #billsbillsbills #AuDHD #audhdburnout #underpaidoverworked #pleasedonate

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
78 followers · 118 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

Anyone know how to setup a gofundme?

I wasn’t going to though I’ve been eyeing the idea for 2-3 months now because I didn’t feel like I was struggling enough to be worthy setting up something like that - but got reminded that’s just my internal ableism talking. Plus & I’m all out of options anyways.

#MutualAid #gofundme #AuDHD #audhdburnout #strugglingthisyear #foreverfloundering

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
78 followers · 113 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

Sold my AirPods and will get paid for them tomorrow morning. That leaves me $50 short for my bill. Meanwhile - I still need to come up with $900 roughly between now and the first to pay my car registration renewal fee, health insurance renewal and December payment, a $200 PayPal negative balance I got from using their debit card connected to my bank to deal with other bills, and my negative $500 bank balance that will cause my account to be closed on me if not dealt with by the 10th of January. Yay.
PayPal: @PCairo
CashApp: $Pegypt

#billsbillsbills #nojokebroke #foreverfloundering #audhdburnout #outofideas #neednewjob #overworkedunderpaid #sensoryhell #micromanagementnightmare #toxicworkculture #mutualaidappreciated #MutualAidRequest #AuDHD #basicneedsnotmet #fcktheeconomy

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
75 followers · 108 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

We take a break from our normally scheduled programming of to give you this meme and the comments below it that I screenshotted from Reddit because I found it hilarious enough to stop freaking out a minute and relatable.

#foreverfloundering #audhdburnout #Meme #iconmunicateinmeme #irelate #AuDHD #redditfun

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
75 followers · 107 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

When you work as a captioning agent but you’re and in burnout so everything is loud muddy and triggering - and the vdi and captioning software your toxic employers make you use is half baked so it’s always freezing/glitching/spitting out nonsense anyways - NIGHTMARE. FUEL. Being unsupported by management & only paid 12/hr for three years doesn’t help.

#AuDHD #spiraling #burnout #hell #underpaidoverworked #audhdburnout #audioprocessingissues #sensoryhell #micromanagementnightmare #makeaccomodationsaccessible #mismanagement #sinkingship #toxicworkculture

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
73 followers · 104 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

Trying to sell these things so I can pay my bills. DM if interested. Mutual Aid is also appreciated.

#sellingused #preownedtech #billsbillsbills #audhdburnout #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
72 followers · 104 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

Out of Options & no bites anywhere else yet. Please comment if interested.

#audhdburnout #MutualAidRequest #buyused #billsbillsbills #AuDHD

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
72 followers · 103 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

Well it’s begun - I think. Lost service for a good 10 minutes earlier with a notification saying they couldn’t activate my service. Again any help would be appreciated. I think I just need $100 to get through the rest of the past due bill. Any little bit helps. Trying really hard not to freak out right now.
PayPal: @PCairo
CashApp: $Pegypt

#MutualAidRequest #billsbillsbills #audhdburnout #underpaidoverworked #endlesslyfloundering #cantpayessentials #AuDHD

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
70 followers · 97 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

So I am $250 short of having my phone service kept active. If anyone wants to help I’d greatly appreciate it. I have till the 14th. PayPal: @PCairo Cashapp: $PEgypt

#MutualAidRequest #billsbillsbills #ndburnout #audhdburnout #struggling #foreverfloundering #cashapp #paypal

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
65 followers · 88 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

How do I get a job that doesn’t kill my body and brain? How do I get a kind of job I know I’ll be ok in when my resume is sporadic and everything I want to do I either have no paper trailed experience or I’m overqualified - ? I just want to be able to pay my bills without being miserable and impulsively want to break shit/bash my head into a wall to make the triggers and suffering stop. 🥺💥🤦🏻‍♀️

#AuDHD #audhdburnout #fckd #howdoimoveforward #theresnowinning #foreverfloundering #moneyisevil

Last updated 2 years ago

Pam · @thepamcakez
64 followers · 84 posts · Server neurodifferent.me
Pam · @thepamcakez
62 followers · 80 posts · Server neurodifferent.me

Anyone else ever wanna just walk off a cliff because what’s the point if you can’t financially afford surviving the rat race anymore anyways? Nm “living”. What’s living?📱 be shut off in 48 hrs b/c I can’t pay my bills. 🏦 close my account another wk or so after that - fck.

#idontknowwhattodo #ratrace #cantkeepdoingthis #billsbillsbills #whatsthepoint #MutualAid #endlesslygaspingforair #AuDHD #stressvomiting #depression #audhdburnout

Last updated 2 years ago