The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
65 followers · 29 posts · Server ohai.social
#AvoidantPartners in #negativeCycles often lead with defensiveness, counter-blame/attack, and shut down when confronted with complaints. Trying new behaviours can help break #negativeCycles.
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment #AvoidantAttachment
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The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
65 followers · 28 posts · Server ohai.social
#AttachmentStyles help us understand fears and behaviours in #elationships.
- #AnxiousAttachment may fear being unheard and cope by being critical.
- #AvoidantAttachment may fear shame and cope by avoiding conflict.
- #DisorganisedAttachment may lack trust and react with conflict or withdrawal.
- #SecureAttachment may still have #relationship #anxiety but trust in repair.
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle
#attachmentstyles #elationship #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #disorganisedattachment #secureattachment #relationship #anxiety #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
64 followers · 28 posts · Server ohai.social
#AvoidantAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #DisorganisedAttachment #SecureAttachment
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #Anxiety
#avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #disorganisedattachment #secureattachment #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #anxiety
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
63 followers · 50 posts · Server ohai.social
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
60 followers · 57 posts · Server ohai.social
#AvoidantAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #DisorganisedAttachment #SecureAttachment
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #Anxiety
#avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #disorganisedattachment #secureattachment #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #anxiety
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
59 followers · 55 posts · Server ohai.socialUsually when confronted with a complaint from their partner, the #avoidantPartner will lead with defensiveness and rational, will then move to counter-blameattack, and when that doesnt work, will shut down.
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment #AvoidantAttachment
#avoidantpartner #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantattachment
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
52 followers · 55 posts · Server ohai.social
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
52 followers · 57 posts · Server ohai.social
I’m here to help you understand your own and your partner’s #attachmentStyle. Understanding promotes healing and this is the goal…to heal from #insecureAttachments. #AvoidantAttachment
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment
#attachmentstyle #insecureattachments #avoidantattachment #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #secureattachment
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
52 followers · 57 posts · Server ohai.social
#AvoidantPartners in #negativeCycles often lead with defensiveness, counter-blame/attack, and shut down when confronted with complaints. Trying new behaviours can help break #negativeCycles.
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment #AvoidantAttachment
#avoidantpartners #negativecycles #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantattachment
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
52 followers · 57 posts · Server ohai.social
#AvoidantAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #DisorganisedAttachment #SecureAttachment
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #Anxiety
#avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #disorganisedattachment #secureattachment #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #anxiety
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
50 followers · 53 posts · Server ohai.social
#AvoidantPartners in #negativeCycles often lead with defensiveness, counter-blame/attack, and shut down when confronted with complaints. Trying new behaviours can help break #negativeCycles.
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment #AvoidantAttachment
#avoidantpartners #negativecycles #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantattachment
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
48 followers · 54 posts · Server ohai.socialUsually when confronted with a complaint from their partner, the #avoidantPartner will lead with defensiveness and rational, will then move to counter-blameattack, and when that doesnt work, will shut down.
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment #AvoidantAttachment
#avoidantpartner #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantattachment
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
42 followers · 54 posts · Server ohai.socialUsually when confronted with a complaint from their partner, the #avoidantPartner will lead with defensiveness and rational, will then move to counter-blameattack, and when that doesnt work, will shut down.
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment #AvoidantAttachment
#avoidantpartner #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #attachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantattachment
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
37 followers · 54 posts · Server ohai.social
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
36 followers · 55 posts · Server ohai.social
The Secure Relationship 💘 · @TheSecureRelationship
30 followers · 51 posts · Server ohai.social
I’m here to help you understand your own and your partner’s #attachmentStyle. Understanding promotes healing and this is the goal…to heal from insecure attachments. #AvoidantAttachment
♥️ #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Love #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #AttachmentStyle #SecureAttachment
#attachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #relationships #relationshipadvice #love #attachment #attachmenttheory #secureattachment
LightSaber · @LightSaber
0 followers · 2 posts · Server cupoftea.social
People confuse avoidants with narcissists, because they have a high narcissistic trait to give counter blame that “sounds” legit and rational, but is actually used to undermine the other person and their basic needs. Why? Because they feel inferior when given feedback or feel blamed. No, they aren’t usually conscious of even feeling inferior. They mask this with over confidence and counter blame.
#Avoidantattachment #narcissist #narcissticabuse #datingadvice #marriage #anxiousattachment
#avoidantattachment #narcissist #narcissticabuse #datingadvice #marriage #anxiousattachment