Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
37 followers · 44 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
37 followers · 43 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
37 followers · 43 posts · Server graphics.social
That Nature Boy · @that_nature_boy
98 followers · 145 posts · Server woof.group

There is something I've wanted to try for a very long time and I finally got the scene set up with a friend...... What is it? Here is a hint:

#kink #kinky #kinklifestyle #bdsm #bdsmlifestyle #sounding

Last updated 1 year ago

That Nature Boy · @that_nature_boy
83 followers · 122 posts · Server woof.group

Them: just run for office.

Me: oh, okay. Forgetting for a moment the financial requirements, the time requirements, the physical & mental health requirements - I'm a gay kinkster in -red-hat-cult- territory-, let alone the type of kinkster I am. I'll get unalived before I'd win.

#kink #kinky #kinklifestyle #bdsm #bdsmlifestyle #bdsmcommunity #leatherboy #abdl #abdlcommunity

Last updated 1 year ago

That Nature Boy · @that_nature_boy
79 followers · 118 posts · Server woof.group

This was me at IML... Why can't I be the same extroverted confident boy at my home bars that I am when traveling??

#leather #leatherboy #bdsm #bdsmlifestyle #bdsmcommunity #kink #kinky

Last updated 1 year ago

That Nature Boy · @that_nature_boy
76 followers · 115 posts · Server woof.group

Seeing other boys with their Sir/Daddy sometimes makes me very sad, because I want that. I dunno what I'm doing wrong that I can't find it.

#sub #subproblems #leatherboy #bdsm #bdsmlifestyle #bdsmcommunity #abdl #abdlcommunity

Last updated 1 year ago

Miss Rosalie · @SilkenClaws
82 followers · 81 posts · Server kinky.business

I had a long frustrating conversation with someone yesterday who didn't understand the difference between 'domme' and 'therapist'.

Dominance is not a fix for personal issues. While a dynamic can help with structure and accountability for what you're already working on, a dom won't magically fix things for you.

To really enable someone else to have control over you, you need to have at least some control over yourself first.

#kink #bdsm #femdom #bdsmcommunity #bdsmlifestyle #powerexchange

Last updated 1 year ago

Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
31 followers · 39 posts · Server graphics.social
Miss Rosalie · @SilkenClaws
80 followers · 79 posts · Server kinky.business

People are not projects. If a sub doesn't see you as a person, they're not going to start, no matter what you do. Basic empathy and decency isn't something you can 'train'.

Saw another newbie domme on Reddit making that mistake recently and I think it's a common pitfall. It's a weird variant of the 'but I can fix him' trope. No, you can't. Don't try.

#kink #thoughts #relationships #bdsmcommunity #bdsmlifestyle #powerexchange #femdomblog #femdom

Last updated 1 year ago

West Rose · @westrose
2 followers · 3 posts · Server kinkyelephant.com
Miss Rosalie · @SilkenClaws
64 followers · 59 posts · Server kinky.business

I did a quick write up of a conversation I had with a friend today about the Jonah Hill boundaries thing.

Boundaries are rules we set for ourselves to protect our wellbeing. They are not rules we set for other people.

My friend, a thoroughly vanilla lawyer who loves an argument, asked how 'being controlling' is different from what I do - ie power exchange. The resulting rant can be read below, if you're curious.

silkenclaws.com/2023/07/10/jon

#bdsm #jonahhill #thoughts #sexblog #control #powerexchange #bdsmcommunity #bdsmlifestyle #femdom #kink

Last updated 1 year ago

Miss Rosalie · @SilkenClaws
60 followers · 54 posts · Server kinky.business

My sub informed me he is putting on a latex catsuit purely FOR THE GOOD OF THE CATSUIT and absolutely NO OTHER REASON.

This seems plausible. I suspect no ulterior motives.

#latex #kink #submissive #dominant #sub #bdsm #bdsmcommunity #bdsmlifestyle

Last updated 1 year ago

Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
20 followers · 37 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
20 followers · 35 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
20 followers · 34 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
21 followers · 33 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
21 followers · 31 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
21 followers · 30 posts · Server graphics.social
Paragon Illusions · @paragonillusions
21 followers · 29 posts · Server graphics.social