I like the name.

Boundary stones or markers are quite common remnants of the world before accurate mapping. This one also marks the boundary between Lancashire and Yorkshire, an important distinction.

"Boundary stone, Turvin Road B6138, Mytholmroyd"
cc-by-sa/2.0 - © Humphrey Bolton - https://geograph.org.uk/p/843397

#Geograph #Photography #Yorkshire #Lancashire #Boundary #Geolocation #Mytholmroyd #Moorland #Uplands

See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mytholmroyd for pronounciation.

3 P.M. #RADAR UPDATE:

Several clusters of #showers, with a possible few #lightning bolts, are forming in the #Boundary #Waters and west of the #TwinPorts. They are moving east/southeast.

Again, not everyone will see #rain today and tonight. If you do, don't expect much to fall (<0.25").

#wxtooter #weather #MNwx #WIwx #UPwx

4:15 P.M. RADAR UPDATE:

The first line of stronger #showers and possible #thunderstorms are pushing through the northern reaches of the #Northland. The focus is for northeast St. Louis and Lake counties at this time, which includes the #Boundary #Waters.

We are still waiting to see if any severe weather pops up through the rest of today. A watch could be issues soon.

#wxtooter #weather #MNwx #WIwx #UPwx

Ep. 36 discusses the allegations by Sarah Brady that her ex-boyfriend and celebrity Jonah Hill emotionally abused her and dressed up the #abuse in #therapy language. Irina and Michelle analyze the difference between #boundaries and #coercivecontrol, the ways in which #boundary speak doesn't absolve the speaker of problematic values injected into requests (or demands), and the general current trends in distorting #psychological language to serve one's purposes. Tune in and join the discourse! 🤔🧠🚫

@HashiCorp #Boundary makes infrastructure access simpler -- and therefore more secure.

https://www.yobyot.com/cloud/more-secure-infrastructure-access-hashicorp-boundary/2023/06/28/

The session I've been waiting for the whole day... #Boundary #hashidays #munich

6PM #RADAR UPDATE:

Thank an #outflow #boundary from previous #storms for the latest to form in the #Northland this evening.

Expect a gust of #wind and small #hail in the circled area over the next hour.

#wxtooter #weather #MNwx

Global News BC: Severe thunderstorm watch issued for parts of B.C.’s Southern Interior https://globalnews.ca/news/9727634/severe-thunderstorm-watch-b-c-southern-interior-may-27/ #globalnews #britishcolumbia #news #SevereThunderstormWatch #EnvironmentCanada #southerninterior #centralokanagan #NorthOkanagan #southokanagan #SouthThompson #boundary #Weather #nicola

Global News BC: Severe thunderstorm watch issued for B.C.’s Southern Interior https://globalnews.ca/news/9713657/severe-thunderstorm-watch-southern-interior-may-20-2023/ #globalnews #britishcolumbia #news #SevereThunderstormWatch #EnvironmentCanada #okanaganweather #BCweatheralert #weatheralert #similkameen #BCweather #boundary #Okanagan #Weather #Shuswap

Global News BC: Evacuation order expanded for Goodlow, B.C. due to wildfire near Alberta border https://globalnews.ca/news/9679467/evacuation-order-expanded-goodlow-bc-wildfire/ #globalnews #britishcolumbia #news #PeaceRiverRegionalDistrictalert #PeaceRiverRegionalDistrictorder #PeaceRiverRegionalDistrict #BoundaryLakewildfire #BCevacuationalert #BCevacuationorder #BCWildfireService #BCwildfires #BCWildfire #boundary #Goodlow #BCFire #Fire

Global News BC: Okanagan residents urged to brace for severe thunderstorms https://globalnews.ca/news/9677167/okanagan-weather-statement-severe-thunderstorm-watch/ #globalnews #britishcolumbia #news #EnvironmentCanada #Thunderstorms #stormwarning #Weatherwatch #downpours #HeavyRain #Mudlsides #boundary #Flooding #Okanagan #Weather #BCFlood #Floods

@funcrunch

It's not that I care where someone is in addition to here.

It's that they post #links that, were I to follow them, would briefly put me in those spaces. Where I choose not to be.

This is my #boundary and I'm fiercely guarding it.

The mathematics of #cell #boundary 'ruggedness'.

#MDCK #interdigitation

https://phys.org/news/2023-04-mathematics-cell-boundary-ruggedness.html

Global News BC: Heavy rain forecast for parts of B.C.’s Southern Interior https://globalnews.ca/news/9612724/heavy-rain-bc-southern-interior-april-10/ #globalnews #britishcolumbia #news #EnvironmentCanada #kootenaylakearea #WeatherWarning #weatheralert #50mmofrain #arrowlakes #slocanlake #HeavyRain #Kootenays #boundary #Flooding #Weather #News

#Boundary
#foundry

Someone: "Calling someone a #narcissist is #ableist and #abusive to people with #personality #disorders. You see, I have a personality disorder."

Me: "What if the person who abused you did it in such a manner that they played out the symptoms of their personality disorder?"

Someone: "Your reply is why you're part of the problem."

Me: "Are you being serious right now?"

Someone: "Ugh. Fuck off."

As a person who tends to believe that abusive people, regardless of their #psychopathology, do not deserve my #empathy as a #survivor of #trauma, I'm trying really hard not to internalize the following lesson:

People with Cluster B personality disorders who claim that identifying their personality disorder is a form of ableism are using leftist language in order to justify and excuse their abusive behavior.

My last abuser loved using leftist language as a way of silencing the victims of their abusive behavior. They once set a #boundary that no one could claim that their bad #behavior was #manipulative because it was a #trigger for their trauma, which was actually a perverse way of preventing anyone who cared about them from calling them out when they did behave abusively.

Ironically, and disgustingly, the individual about who I'm speaking tonight once convinced me that someone who had abused them had lied about how abusive they were in order to punish them for refusing to be victimized any further. I believed them. Now, I really wonder whether that was ever true. It makes me wonder whether my abuser says that about me, that I was their true abuser. I wonder how many people like me believe them. And I'm really trying not to wonder about such things because it's a waste of energy I could be using to create content and joy.

Anyway, I hate making generalizations, and I really want to believe that even though Western #psychology doesn't know how to help people #heal from any Cluster B personality disorder aside from #BPD (thank you, Marsha #Linehan), that these people are still human beings capable of being more than just scary and dangerous.

I want to believe that. But each time this happens, I believe it a little bit less. I imagine at some point, I'll have to admit that my faith in them was wrong, and I hurt myself repeatedly by believing in people that I never should have believed in.

Gods, I hate it when people cause me to lose faith in them. It feels really fucking awful to fear a group of people for something out of their control. But I also know that I'm forgiving (read: stupid) enough that if I met a new person right now with an official #diagnosis of #NPD, I'd treat them like any other person and be obnoxiously surprised when it turned out they behaved like I should have expected a narcissist to.

There is a confounding factor in that the person I had to deal with tonight claimed to have a personality disorder and also to distrust the mental health system so much that they refused to have anything to do with it. Unfortunately, this means that they were not receiving any kind of #treatment for their #mental #health issues, and this is something that this person has in common with my abuser.

So, maybe a more fair statement than the one above is:

People with Cluster B personality disorders who refuse to engage in any kind of treatment for their mental health and also claim that identifying their personality disorder is a form of ableism are using leftist language in order to justify and excuse their abusive behavior.

This statement allows the individual with the personality disorder to have made a #choice. And that choice, insofar as humans are their behavior towards others, applies not only to personality disorders, but very much to #PTSD and trauma survivors.

To me.

This is why I don't think that I have any place to argue that I was good or deserved positive treatment during my self-serving enabling of others' narcissistic abuse by my abuser. I made a choice, and it was a hard choice not to make, but it was a choice I made. Even if I had no control over the choice, I was still not a safe person to be around because of my loyalty to such a selfish and capricious person. Yeah, I had a #therapist, but I also wasn't great at keeping appointments then (probably for significant, non-time-management-related reasons that I'm only recently beginning to understand).

Compare that to now, when I have few qualms about ending #toxic relationships, a stronger sense of personal #identity, and a supportive and constructive #social #support group. And when I'm seeing a therapist and #psychiatrist regularly and religiously because I understand how much it benefits me and have been consistently #healing from my trauma as evidenced by reports from the people that know me and that see me day in and day out.

As much as I hate making generalizations, I find I'm generally OK with making ones that I can easily and appropriately apply to myself. So that's something.

I published Why You Should be Using an Identity-Aware Proxy (IAP) on @medium

#devops #writing #writerscommunity #zerotrust #boundary

https://medium.com/hashicorp-engineering/why-you-should-be-using-an-identity-aware-proxy-iap-fec07764fc61

#EAS for Bonner, ##ID; ##Boundary, ##ID: National Weather Service: Snow Squall Warning until 11:45 AM PST. Slow down or delay travel! Be ready for a sudden drop to near zero visibility and icy roads in heavy snow. Source: NWS Spokane WA** DO NOT RELY ON THIS FEED FOR LIFE SAFETY, SEEK OUT OFFICIAL SOURCES ***

#EAS for Bonner, #ID; #Boundary, #ID: Snow Squall Warning issued February 21 at 10:46AM PST until February 21 at 11:45AM PST by NWS Spokane WA Source: NWS Spokane WA** DO NOT RELY ON THIS FEED FOR LIFE SAFETY, SEEK OUT OFFICIAL SOURCES ***

Un desafío de gravedad cero; Boundary su beta como parte del Steam Next Fest

https://powerups.es/un-desafio-de-gravedad-cero-boundary-su-beta-como-parte-del-steam-next-fest/

#Noticias #Boundary #SkystoneGames