Video idea I had while driving home that's interesting to me AND will bring in views--"5 (or 10) reasons why having big boobs sucks."
-look up bra prices and inconsistent sizing
-how a busty woman wearing the exact same shirt will be considered "slutty" while a smaller breasted person wont
-added gender dysphoria for those who don't identify as women. Binding can be very dangerous and uncomfortable. Breast removal can be very expensive and painful. Also not generally allowed fo rminors, so that's added years of dysphoria to deal with.
-higher rates of breast cancer? Not sure if true, will have to research
-more and faster sag, which shouldn't matter in our society, yet are yet another grounds on which women's bodies are judged.
-really uncomfortable during exercise, requires thicker and more uncomfortable (and more expensive) bras
-maybe racial expectations? Will have to ask for feedback from marginalized people if this is true.
-biggest reason--unwanted attention. The misogynist perspective of our society dictates that the biggest compliment a man can give a woman is to let her know she's "fuckable, " and that's especially true for someone who's busty. You can't help being born busty--yes you could starve yourself to make your breasts smaller, but why would you destroy your body like that? And again, breasts reduction is expensive and painful, and doesn't help minors who develop faster. Many women will intentionally wear baggy clothes just to try to minimize their breast size, and will avoid many other clothing types just to avoid increasing sexual harassment. The onus as always should be on other people--mostly men--to keep their comments to themselves, but we're a long way from every achieving that (of its even possible) and in the meantime, getting sexually harassed just for having a body attribute you can't even help having really sucks.
I would love to get the perspective of other people with large breasts (or maybe not large, but just what they have to deal with overall), maybe submitted video clips, or text comments for me to read aloud. Would especially love the perspective of busty people who don't identify as women, or maybe who do, who got breast implants and now regret it? Idk will think on it.
Maybe I'll do a future video on why small boobs suck, though Tbh that would get a lot fewer views (not that views are the only or even the most important metric on which I decide to base what subjects I cover).
Anything else about being busty I should include? I just had this idea a few minutes ago and already my brain is exploding with inspiration, lol.
Ps thanks again to @eldritch.cafe for having a 5000 character count, so I can get all these thoughts out in one message instead of a whole thread. I really, really appreciate it ❤️
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