Begrudging Recluse · @begrudging_recluse
546 followers · 1360 posts · Server zeroes.ca

I don't have any children and I'm happy with that.

Even if the future was bright, I wouldn't want to.
Even if I was healthier, I wouldn't want to.
Even if childcare was guaranteed, I wouldn't want to.
Even if I was wealthy, I wouldn't want to.
Even if the world's population was very small, I wouldn't want to.

There are no ifs that could make me want a child.

I don't want to go through pregnancy, childbirth or adoption.
I don't want to raise a baby, a small child or a teenager.
I don't look forward to having adult children coming to visit.

I believe that ideally children should come into this world wanted. Simply not wanting to, shouldn't that be reason enough?

#childfree #childfreebychoice

Last updated 2 years ago

daria-andrea · @daridrea
183 followers · 315 posts · Server graphics.social

"People don't like it when women are given a choice." (Aw man, Zoë rulez!) ♥️ podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ Why? I will never understand it. What is the reason behind this line of "thinking"? (cultural differences, religion, stereotypes, patriarchal bullshit?) Is education the solution?

#childfreebychoice #childfree

Last updated 2 years ago

Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
472 followers · 2816 posts · Server ohai.social

Nothing like a hot summer weekend to remind me why I chose not to have children.
No regrets.

#childfree #childfreebychoice #childfreelife #noregrets

Last updated 2 years ago

cayotic spice · @cayoticneutral
118 followers · 248 posts · Server mstdn.party
Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
431 followers · 2582 posts · Server ohai.social

I remain happily child-free by choice.
Stop asking if I'll regret it.

#childfree #childfreebychoice #prochoice

Last updated 2 years ago

Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
423 followers · 2457 posts · Server ohai.social

Some really sad stories from people who were child-free by choice, but ended up having children for a variety of reasons; from coercion (even rape) and accidents to 'simple' regret.

As a child-free woman myself, my heart goes out to these people, as I have never regretted my choice for a single second.

So if you're on the fence about having children, or actually made the choice to stay child-free, this is worth a read.

bit.ly/43g8at8

#childfree #childfreebychoice #childfreelife

Last updated 2 years ago

Oonagh · @unamay
5 followers · 3 posts · Server home.social

"medical providers routinely deny childfree adults access to voluntary sterilization...more outreach and education are necessary to dismantle and reduce these responses"

Dismissed and ushered out of the room when I asked, told I had no chance, and to ask my partner to get a vasectomy instead (erm, not my body...)

Shout it from the rooftops, people who don't want kids don't change our minds!

journals.plos.org/plosone/arti

#childfree #childfreebychoice

Last updated 2 years ago

Schneewittchen · @ichbindabomb
652 followers · 990 posts · Server nerdculture.de
Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
400 followers · 2244 posts · Server ohai.social

When Everyone is Complaining About Their Kids...

And there's me, at the age of 48 and zero regrets.

#childfree #childfreebychoice #childfreelife #digitalart #digitalartist #artofmastodon

Last updated 2 years ago

Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
393 followers · 2165 posts · Server ohai.social
Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
393 followers · 2162 posts · Server ohai.social

I've never wanted children, but the one place that always hammers that choice home is an airport.

#childfree #childfreelife #childfreebychoice

Last updated 2 years ago

Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
391 followers · 2087 posts · Server ohai.social

We're staying in some lovely apartments on holiday. They're mostly one-bedroom and the communal pool is wonderful as there are no massive selfish families occupying six sunbeds with their towels from 6am (that are never actually occupying them). Apparently, towels are removed after a while by pool guards. Good. 😂
No screaming kids, peace and quiet.

#childfree #childfreelife #childfreebychoice

Last updated 3 years ago

Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
389 followers · 2058 posts · Server ohai.social

Reason #12 why I'm

Airports.

#childfree #childfreebychoice

Last updated 3 years ago

Jackie · @BintyMcFrazzles
390 followers · 2038 posts · Server ohai.social

@juglugs
They can worship who they want, just keep the fuck out of my life and reproductive choices.

#prochoice #childfree #childfreebychoice

Last updated 3 years ago

Rod Faulkner · @eosfpodcast
1173 followers · 962 posts · Server universeodon.com

I’m 53 and have never wanted kids. It’s not a judgement on parents or kids. This article really resonated with me:

bbc.com/worklife/article/20230

#childfreebychoice #childfree #childfreelife

Last updated 3 years ago

Katiel · @Katiel
21 followers · 84 posts · Server mstdn.social

Immer, wenn ich irgendwas zum "Enkelkindwunsch" lese, bin ich froh um meine Mutter. Nachdem mein Mann zu seiner Mutter übergangsweise den Kontakt abbrechen musste, weil sie mit dem Thema so genervt hat, hat meine es nach nur einer Ansage akzeptiert.
Und sagt inzwischen, sie bedauert ihre Freundinnen, die jetzt immer als Babysitter eingeplant werden.
1/2

#childfree #childfreebychoice #childfreeacceptance

Last updated 3 years ago

Katiel · @Katiel
23 followers · 117 posts · Server mstdn.social

Immer, wenn ich irgendwas zum "Enkelkindwunsch" lese, bin ich froh um meine Mutter. Nachdem mein Mann zu seiner Mutter übergangsweise den Kontakt abbrechen musste, weil sie mit dem Thema so genervt hat, hat meine es nach nur einer Ansage akzeptiert.
Und sagt inzwischen, sie bedauert ihre Freundinnen, die jetzt immer als Babysitter eingeplant werden.
1/2

#childfree #childfreebychoice #childfreeacceptance

Last updated 3 years ago

Eye · @grb090423
445 followers · 10130 posts · Server mastodon.social

@themockler

Brilliant!
I loved reading this. 👏👍

#childfreebychoice

Last updated 3 years ago

Jess · @craypapermoon
21 followers · 26 posts · Server mstdn.party

I'm totally fine with growing older. It's a gift. That being said, I'm not sure I'm going to get over being old enough to be my bartender's mom.

#childlessnotbychoice #childless #childfreelife #childfreebychoice #oldfolksofmastodon #childfree #xennialproblem #xennial

Last updated 3 years ago

Beelzebabe667✅🇺🇦 · @Beelzebabe667
124 followers · 1056 posts · Server mastodon.lol

If you have to continuously affirm to your friends and family that your child is "sweet" and "well-behaved" and "smart" and "helpful," then maybe your kid isn't really any of those things. Here is a feline palate cleanser.

#childfreebychoice #catsonly #catsofmastodon

Last updated 3 years ago