Well this is quite disturbing information I just found out about. #Northview Community #Church is #antiLGBTQ. And this really hits hard cause I actually know family members that attend this church. Gonna try to convince them to switch to another church in town, cause the family members I know that go to this church are not like this. https://www.churchclarity.org/church/northview-community-church-1291 #homophobia #LGBT #LGBTQ #Pride #ChurchHate #Hate #Discrimination #Bigotry #Christianity #Religion #religousabuse #religousbullshit #religoustrauma #ChurchAbuse #churchtrauma #churchpropoganda
#northview #church #antilgbtq #homophobia #LGBT #LGBTQ #pride #churchhate #hate #discrimination #bigotry #Christianity #religion #religousabuse #religousbullshit #religoustrauma #churchabuse #churchtrauma #churchpropoganda
Tonight in #therapy we talked about Religious Trauma Syndrome (#RTS). It was a *rough* session. Rough.
I've been going to therapy every week for 3 years now, peeling away layers and digging deep. Tonight my shovel hit something solid: The Church. Specifically, the evangelical church. The source of emotional vacancy in our family.
Grief. Anger. Trauma. Unacknowledged harm on so many levels.
Tonight was rough. Goddamn.
#therapy #RTS #exfundie #exvangelicalgrief #exvangelical #churchtrauma
You think we were all born sinners but you could never be capable of racism š„“
#BLM #race #black #white #diversity #church #jesus #god #christian #christianity #christiannationalism #evangelicalism #systemicoppression #systemicracism #implicitbias #systemic #Justice #racism #antiracism #antiracist #churchhurt #egalitarianism #sexism #misogyny #trump #churchabuse #churchtrauma #spiritualabuse #spiritualtrauma #religiousabuse #religioustrauma #emotionalabuse #emotionaldamage #emotionaltrauma
#blm #race #black #white #diversity #church #jesus #god #christian #christianity #ChristianNationalism #evangelicalism #systemicoppression #systemicracism #implicitbias #systemic #justice #racism #antiracism #antiracist #churchhurt #egalitarianism #sexism #misogyny #trump #churchabuse #churchtrauma #SpiritualAbuse #spiritualtrauma #religiousabuse #religioustrauma #EmotionalAbuse #emotionaldamage #emotionaltrauma
(1/2) Growing up in fundiegelical spaces, I was taught from quite young to focus on what was bad about me, and to feel bad about myself. (āGodly sorrow that leads to repentance.ā š¤®) Prayer, for me, often became an escape from that, where I could bask in love and acceptance instead of guilt and shame. #exvangelical
#ChurchTrauma #ReligiousTrauma
#ReligiousTrauma #churchtrauma #exvangelical
Intro post-2
-Almost every church Iāve pastored in has had major elements of unhealth and leaders with no real checks and balances. This led to #churchtrauma in every position. My daughters are barely hanging onto faith because of it.
-As Iāve got older, I move towards love and grace in most theological responses. I love #lgbtq people, I am primarily a #democrat mainly due to anti-Bible principles and the worshipping of the GOP/Trump.
#churchtrauma #lgbtq #democrat
Recently found out that my former boss has drove away more than a few core congregants from his church. Iām ashamed to say that I felt more than a tiny bit of glee when I heard the news.
He caused me so much pain and anxiety and I know it has to be a knock to his prideā¦but I genuinely still care for those people and I grieve that they are not being shepherded well.
Recovering from #churchtrauma is a difficult road to walk.