🌬 NorthWind · @NorthWind
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PogMoThoin · @pogmothoin
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Just had an with someone I've back at previously at least a few times.
Apparently my light-hearted joke was taken as a potential attack.
Why? ? Why? Why is it that we have ourselves , and by ourselves I mean almost on the to so far into digital "Cabin Fever" that a light-hearted joke is seen as a possible ?
When did we decide that being ready for the VERY low fucking percentage of who actually wish to do us harm means CREATING MORE by not being open to a simple hello?
Another example of this...
Before at an Outlet Mall I was walking with my into a , and saw a walking to a different store. They crossed in front of us.
One of the couple was wearing some really cute/cool dangle X-Mas . I may have been staring, but only because the earrings looked cool to me. I could feel them up and "hide" from me looking. As they crossed close enough, I said, "Cool earrings!" to them, loud enough that they could hear it.
They turned around a few seconds later and said, "Thanks!".
Their initial instinct was to I was out of .
Why?
Yes, there's , but hiding yourself away from the vast majority of people who will take you as you are, and even them only makes it seem worse than it really is.
They WERE cool earrings (and I wanted to see them in more detail!)
There WAS an option missing on that poll (and I was injecting humor regarding that missing option!)
If you push the people away, you will only have the left to deal with, which self-fulfills your view that everyone's out to get you - and we're not.
Fucking stop it.

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Manic Pixie Dream Grandpa · @sboger
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Of course this my last post about mini- and the ability to singularly any they arbitrarily feel are wrong. Instead of one , we've a million mini-Musks. And once again this demonstrates the almost innate ability to . 2/3

#contradicts #fiefdoms #moderators #restrict #ideas #musk #empowered #internets #devolve #consensus

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