@tony I have to say that requirements to physically do this or that in social situations are inherently #disablist / #ableist. It ought to be that an action is appropriate if you believe / feel that you need to take that specific action. As a #wheelie / #disablie I cannot perceive of sitting as an offensive action: if it is not ‘wrong’ for me, by extension it cannæ be wrong for anyone else. I hope that makes sense.