OccuWorld · @OccuWorld
208 followers · 461 posts · Server hear-me.social

OFF$HORE

Mega Yachts and False Flags: Unmasking the Super Rich's Offshore Secrets

youtube.com/watch?v=KjpnObVhKp

We’re on the high seas of the offshore world. Why are people – that is, rich people – throwing up flags for the wrong countries on their damn boats and how does this help them get richer and avoid rules (like, say, paying people and being held responsible for major ecological disasters)? How are countries capturing luxurious boats secretly owned by Russian oligarchs?

#rich #classwar #theft #enablers #exploitation #secrets

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Emory L. · @emory
216 followers · 2100 posts · Server soc.kvet.ch

the people at know when i am at my most vulnerable!

#chromeindustries #bags #carry #shopping #enablers

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Quaere Everything · @slulman
150 followers · 2314 posts · Server mas.to

@pluralistic this is an excellent summary. Thank you! Also good reading: Butler to the World by Oliver Bullough.

#enablers #plutocrats #kleptocrats #billionaires #wealth #corruption

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Mo Edray · @Moedray
485 followers · 1713 posts · Server mindly.social

Legal scholars increasingly raise constitutional argument that Trump should be barred from presidency - CNN Politics apple.news/AJleBo6LeRreMK45w0q

When Professor Tribe and Mr. Luttig speak, should be worried (since they’re not informed). . .especially and all

#magats #joshhawley #TedCruz #marjorietaylorgreene #enablers

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Ellen Timmer · @ellent
432 followers · 4630 posts · Server mastodon.nl

Boeiende van een complete beroepsgroep met het verhaal dat de EU naäapt
Weer zo'n herkenbare vereenvoudiging van de werkelijkheid

x.com/factcoalition/status/169

#enablers #framing

Last updated 1 year ago

The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.

Same methods 'used on the plantation': Black task force member scorches Florida slavery guidelines

rawstory.com/same-methods-used

#enablers #USpol #defascists

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Grutjes · @Grutjes
1502 followers · 2147 posts · Server mstdn.social

Fascist organiseert boekverbrandingen.
Is een racistische, homofobe corona- & klimaatontkenner vol vrouwenhaat.
Laat mannen oppakken als ze zich niet mannelijk genoeg gedragen in het openbaar.
Laat kids ontvoeren als ze zich niet mannelijk of vrouwelijk genoeg gedragen, sluit hun ouders op.
Laat schoolbibliotheekmedewerkers opsluiten als ze boeken over Anne Frank of Rosa Parks uitlenen.

Nederlandse media:
"Trump zonder drama"
"De hoop voor een nieuwe generatie"

#enablers #fascist #desantis

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beSpacific · @bespacific
813 followers · 1306 posts · Server newsie.social
Shrink4Men · @Shrink4Men
19 followers · 83 posts · Server lor.sh

: Strategic or Weaponized

Or, what I’ve long referred to as playing dumb and/or deliberately screwing up tasks in order to get out of doing them in the future. Typically utilized by the or , the variety pack, the and the . (*These groups are not mutually exclusive.)

We’re all human. We all make mistakes. What matters is that we take ownership of our blunders and f—k-ups, apologize, fix it (if possible) and make an honest effort to be more careful in the future. Furthermore, many people have individual particular preferences that, when we share a space with others, we may need to accept won’t always be accommodated.

For example, toilet paper flap goes over not under. Small logs on top and bigger logs on the bottom of the firewood stack. Perfectly folded fitted sheets.

Strategic or weaponized incompetence is repetitive carelessness, damage and destruction of your property and the foisting of one’s share of responsibilities at work or at home. It’s a behavior pattern that repeatedly occurs over time. Generally, it doesn’t get better because it’s not an anomalous unintentional screw-up. It’s an intentional tactic serving to reduce the effort they put into the relationship that requires you to contribute more.

Ever wonder why relationships with these types are so exhausting? I mean, beside the , pointless circular arguments, absence of formal logic and other crazy-making irrationalities and abuse?
Because these individuals dump the as much of their adult responsibility onto their partners, kids, colleagues and other as they can get away with.

If or when you finally express frustration or the tiniest bit of criticism, the , or will:

a) . “Why are you being so mean?!?! It’s not like I do these things on purpose!!”

b) Attack and What About. “Oh, like you’re Mr./Ms. Perfect!? Like you never screw up!?!?! What about the [one time you made an honest mistake, apologized and corrected the mistake that the , or holds over you in perpetuity]?!?!?!?!”

c) Martyr mode. “I can’t do anything right. You must be so sick of me. I’m so stupid. I bet you hate me now. Boo hoo, boo hoo, boo hoo hoo hoo.”

d) Minimize and dismiss. “You’re such a perfectionist! Why do you always have to make a mountain out of a molehill? You’re soooooo sensitive. If you’re so unhappy with how I do things, why don’t you do it yourself?!”

e) Rage.

f) All of the above.

You can begin cooking, cleaning up, etc., only for yourself. However, don’t be surprised if their clutter stacks become high rises and their bathroom sink becomes caked with toothpaste, shaved hairs and other nastiness. This measure isn’t possible if you share kids with them, of course.

Mature adults and good partners don’t dump their share of household responsibility onto the other partner. If your girlfriend, wife, boyfriend or husband engages in strategic incompetence, I wager it isn’t their only selfish, immature, exploitative and shitty behavior. Do you really want to live with this?

[*The earliest use I can find for the term Strategic incompetence is by Robert Sutton, PhD author of "The No Asshole Rule: Building a Civilized Workplace and Surviving One That Isn't, which is a really good book!]

#narcissistdictionary #incompetence #damselindistress #dudeindistress #clusterb #professionalvictim #passivaggressive #drama #enablers #narcissist #borderline #histrionic #playvictim #npd #bpd #hpd #abusehasnogender

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Lloyd Lemons · @lloydlemons
108 followers · 93 posts · Server me.dm

I don't understand how, seemly healthy people, can live a delusional or illusory existence their whole lives, e.g., a family I know whose young son has been accused 3 times of improprieties with other young children, yet "he is the victim".

#stupidpeople #enablers

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Joan of Cat (she/her) 😼 · @ceruleanarc
603 followers · 240 posts · Server eldritch.cafe

Sometimes I watch videos like this, and I feel stupid as fuck for having been convinced for so long that my last was a good person (and that, consequently, I was a bad one).

When I think back to the recent conversations about , where and their attempted to convince me (at first with arguments and then with insults) that narcissism is a , I can see these same patterns replaying themselves.

They will literally convince well-meaning folks that they're trustworthy, and after that, it becomes an easy task to convince others (especially other folks familiar with the that comes from having your mental processes stigmatized), that their mental illness is just "who they are" and that they ought to be accepted as they are.

Accepting others as they are is ostensibly a good thing. But when what they want you to accept is , that's just . There is no in that. It is, at best, a perversion of social justice. At worst, it's directly harmful to of abuse.

Narcissism isn't who anyone is. It's a that can't be tolerated. Without , what you have is a person who does harm to those around them, even if they don't mean to. And "not meaning to cause harm" is still causing harm. If someone can't help but cause you harm, that's objectively bad, and I can only see a narcissist being able to rationalize it to be otherwise.

youtube.com/watch?v=pw6rym2o_V

#abuser #narcissism #narcissists #enablers #neurotype #neurodiverse #abuse #abusive #behavior #gaslighting #socialjustice #survivors #narcissistic #maladaptive #coping #strategy #change

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Joan of Cat (she/her) 😼 · @ceruleanarc
600 followers · 227 posts · Server eldritch.cafe

I am really done caring about the reasons these people have for being pro-. I really am. They say they're just concerned about being stigmatized. But they totally aren't silencing abuse ...

Except that's exactly what they're doing when they tell me to stop talking about my abuse. They don't care about abuse or survivors because they come here, to a survivor's feed, with their fake, fascistic , throwing out insults and easily falsifiable claims, and when they realize their on my feed isn't working, they go to their own feeds to spread the harassment out. Just like on Twitter do.

But the problem is that their harassment is working. Because now, I'm not OK. Now, I'm angry, feeling as fuck, and livid at my own for failing its own on such a fundamental fucking level.

So, seriously, whether you're pro-, pro-, or pro-narcissism, leave me the fuck alone. You should be ashamed of your position, but if your shamelessness is so great that you can't understand the simple facts that pedophilia and zoophilia are not sexual or that narcissism is not a , then at least have the decency to take your unscientific and harmful bullshit elsewhere.

This is a safe space for survivors of abuse. This is not a safe space for and their .

Thanks. Now, as one of you so kindly told me, see yourself out. 👋​

#abuser #narcissism #survivors #victims #outrage #harassment #fascists #gaslighted #community #pedophilia #zoophilia #orientations #neurotype #narcissists #enablers

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ManyRoads :coffeecup: · @ManyRoads
229 followers · 2335 posts · Server mstdn.social

"Putin’s ‘
Some members of the European Parliament continuously refuse to back resolutions against the Ukraine war. Novaya-Europe reveals their names and their connections with Russia"

novayagazeta.eu/articles/2023/

#enablers #weapons #Russia #Putin #NATO #Ukraine #War #military #pentagon #EU #Biden #potus #henchmen

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Arjan Harlaar · @ArjanHarlaar
564 followers · 9307 posts · Server mastodon.social

Ah. De dagelijkse melding van seksueel misbruik in de katholieke kerk is ook weer geweest.
Gokje?
Ook deze wordt weer niet bestraft en de katholieke kerk loopt niet leeg.

#enablers

Last updated 1 year ago

Annon Survivor · @moonscapecat
54 followers · 79 posts · Server aus.social

Today my thoughts and Solidarity is with all Victim/ Survivors of but particularly with those who live who trauma directly resulting from the actions of one person. And those who could no longer endure. I am so sorry.
Today will be especially telling of who attend. Pay attention

#childsexualabuse #enablers #pell #loudfence

Last updated 2 years ago

beSpacific · @bespacific
327 followers · 493 posts · Server newsie.social

Enablers, line-straddlers and quiet resisters: How GOP lawmakers contributed to Jan. 6.
Jan. 6 panel members released mountains of evidence that painted a detailed picture of their GOP colleagues — just as they're taking the House majority. politico.com/news/2023/01/06/e

#gpo #Jan6 #collaborators #enablers #republican #houseofrepresentatives #collusion #lawmakers #neverforget #jan6th

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David Ross Bacchetti · @DrB_NY
424 followers · 294 posts · Server sfba.social

@gregolear and then elon, the entered the Frey, to muddy the waters, of course

Life in Prison, in the Least, for donald j trump AND the ( & as well)

Then work on elon in his flash Gordon/ rocketboy gear. 1st BOYCOTT the then some Sanctions & Seizures...

#emeraldmuskrat #TrumpCrimeFamily #enablers #normalizers #protectors #muskrat

Last updated 2 years ago

David Ross Bacchetti · @DrB_NY
392 followers · 271 posts · Server sfba.social

@richsignorelli I'm quite sure I went thru this w/u once or twice on twitter,,, u gotta think out of the box criminal/player mode! Or, if the used them, they were Already Dirty. Bought & paid for,, some just cash/#Rubles, lots of dirt/ I bet, and some they Simply Pressed because they were weak

They All Need Accountability - of donald j trump

*** hey surprised filipkowski didn't get , old-timer

#TrumpCrimeFamily #kompromat #enablers #normalizers #protectors #Musked

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Juanita Olaya ✅ · @JuanitaO
10 followers · 8 posts · Server det.social

The strength of the opposition to the US Enablers Act is directly proportional to the money that is at stake. That alone, makes the case to urgently enact one.

twitter.com/ianpgary/status/16

#corruption #EnablersAct #enablers

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Shrink4Men · @Shrink4Men
5 followers · 26 posts · Server lor.sh

So you’re thinking about not spending time with your this , , , , but still enjoy a Christmas tree, etc., this year. Good on you!

Before settling in for a long winter’s nap in your kerchief or cap, I suggest the following:

1. Gird your loins – whatever this means to you. Meditation, medication, primal screams, working out, making time to do nothing, extra dog walks, watching the Colin Firth version of Pride and Prejudice or Throw Momma from the Train on endless repeat. Again, whatever works for you.

2. Let the least toxic family member know you’re sitting this year out.

3. Mute phone contacts who are and/or for the apex , or in anticipation of rolling , , and other .

4. If you struggle with guilt and , x 100. Remember, choosing to opt out of abuse, drama and holiday histrionics isn’t wrong. Seriously, you're not doing anything wrong! You’re exercising healthy and practicing .

As an adult, you get to choose what’s best for you. It is your responsibility to yourself.

Besides, opting out of holiday visits gives / / parent, sibling, etc., fresh ™ material. And let’s face, they’re going to victim it up whether you visit or not.

And, since they love nothing more than a nice new juicy tale of victimhood, your absence is the best gift you can give them!

In other words, "You’re welcome, mom and/or dad!"

#toxicfamily #christmas #hanukkah #festivus #atheist #enablers #flyingmonkeys #narcissist #borderline #histrionic #guilttrips #shame #balme #manipulation #obligation #realitytest #boundaries #selfcare #npd #bpd #hpd #professionalvictim #abusehasnogender #npdfreechristmas #bpdfreechristmas

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