I have been included in a group message on Facebook by an acquaintance who is sharing some positive health news they received. I am happy for them but also not looking forward to all the responses I'll be notified about from people I do not know. I know I can leave the conversation but it will tell everyone that I left. What's an appropriate amount of time to stay in the conversation so that it doesn't look like I don't care when I leave? I feel like this is peak #enneagram9 behavior.

enneagram nine: essentials to know about the peacemaker

https://enneagramster.substack.com/p/enneagram-nine-basics?sd=pf

#enneagram #enneagram9 #substack #newsletter

🕊️ #enneagram9 : Seek peace, comfort, harmony. Accommodating, optimistic, peaceful. Core desire is to be at peace, stable. Core fear is to be separated from the world & conflict.

@SweetWinterChild
:blobfoxdealwithitfingerguns: I see you fellow #enneagram9 !

I'm supposed to write an #introduction? Entirely too nerve-wracking for a Saturday. I'm going to go take a nap instead.
#introvert #enneagram9

God, imagine having to make an introduction post. Really gonna take this opportunity to slide into those tags though 👀

I go by K, they/she. I am #queer, #polyamorous, #Latine, #Feminist, #disabled (blind), and a cat person of 2--Mozart and Mazikeen. My lazy passions are #enneagram (that #enneagram9 hashtag is dead y'all and that's very 9 so no one is surprised), #mentalHealth, #dnd, #accessibility, all types of #music (and loved #singing and #Chorus), #Poetry, and of course, #food. Things that I'm wanting to / should really learn more about are #shroomery, #sustainability, #ClimateChange, #knitting, #guitar, #reading, #AcroYoga, and #fitness.

When I figure out what this account wants to be, I'll move towards that. It could turn in to me posting bad original poetry snippets. It will probably though, more than likely end up with my unoriginal showerthoughts. But I think I'm funny / interesting, so I've got that going for me.

Feel free to follow and say hi!

P.S: let's go image descriptions! They really help people like me. (gentle call out to the folks on this server, I've hardly seen any 😂 ). But also for those of y'all that post photos of poems and do caption them, I wonder if the caption might be better served in your text post to preserve formatting?

I'm an #enneagram9 and so is my grandfather. whenever I visit him, it's just so incredibly peaceful for us both. peacemakers unite

@mikeloretto This is very similar to my own experience. Also #Enneagram9, also stuck around in evangelicalism for peacemaking/indolence reasons, now in ELCA seminary trying to do some meaningful spiritual training and enter ministry. We should really talk more