Reminder: not all subs like to be degraded. If your whole timeline is nothing but calling people losers, you could be missing out on good subs. It’s really important to verify what peoples kinks actually are before you just start treating them a certain way.

#findom #femdom #kink #bdsm #ethicalbdsm #softdomme #domme #mistress #dominatrix #submission #domination #goddess #findomgoddess #findomgodathena

I like to think I’m very vocal about how important #communication is to me, but alas sometimes things get misunderstood. I should note that I’m #neurodivergent and sometimes social cues are lost on me. I can’t fix a problem I don’t know about! I want time spent with me to be fun and free of stress, for that to happen I have to know how you feel.

#kink #bdsm #ethicalbdsm #softdomme #dominatrix

Some would do well to reeducate yourselves on the meanings of these acronyms

-S.S.C.

-R.A.C.K.

-P.R.I.C.K.

To know the basics of what it really means to practice bdsm in a safe manner that’s beneficial to both parties.

#bdsm #kink #SSC #RACK #PRICK #ethicalbdsm #femdom #findom #safetyfirst #consent

My “style” is honestly pretty chill. I’m not here to pressure anyone, I just want to vibe and build connections with a little #domination sprinkled in.

#findom #femdom #bdsm #softdomme #ethicalbdsm #mistress #kink #domme

Q: What was your first scene like as a Dom?

My first scene as a solo #Dom was at my first #IML. It was a carefully negotiated scene that centered on #bondage and intensive #BreathControl. I'm not going to go into a lot of detail about the scene itself because it was the definition of #edgeplay and I don't want anyone to think it was #SafeAndSane to do without extensive training and knowledge.

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#BDSM #ethicalBDSM #EthicalDom

Maybe I’m a lost breed, but in my world. #Domination is a sacred responsibility, regardless of the #kink involved. Being a top doesn’t make you a #Dom. Being a narcissist doesn’t make you a #dominant. Nor does being a #sadist. Be aware and present, know what the fuck you’re doing, and put the care and safety of the #submissive first. THEN you have the bare minimum foundation to start working on becoming a skilled dominant.

#BDSM #ethicalBDSM #responsibility

Q: Where do I sign up for the SentimentalDom School for Doms?

This one made me laugh until I thought about how much we need solid information and training for #EthicalBDSM, and how little of it is geared toward being a good #Dom.

There won't be a #SentimentalDom School for Doms, but I will continue to educate and inform. By and large, it is interesting how so much of the instruction in the #kink community is geared toward how to be a good #submissive.

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#BDSM

I’ve said this before and stirred up quite a hornet’s nest on other platforms. If you claim to have no limits, you’re wrong. “No limits” is a fantasy. There are much healthier ways to express complete confidence and trust in a Dom than to tell them they can do whatever they want to you. An #EthicalDom will correct such an error in judgment. But not all doms are ethical.

#BDSM
#EthicalBDSM
#NoLimits
#MentalHealthMatters #SentimentalDom