It is very easy to blur the lines between fantasy and reality, especially in the kink and fetish realms. Profiles and statements of this nature are red flags to any #EthicalDom, because it makes clear that the author does not have a clear understanding of that line.

Even in a TPE (Total Power Exchange) scenario, actually disappearing someone is absolutely unethical and not very smart, either.

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Any Dom who has an expectation of respect without affording you the opportunity to consider whether or not they are worthy of such high regard, does not deserve your respect. Further, I would caution you to take necessary precautions to protect yourself when dealing with such people; if they want to cut corners in such important foundational matters, who knows what other important things might fall by the wayside?

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Consensual non-consent (CNC) can be HOT, but that conversation can only begin when trust and rapport are solidly in place. Before a CNC scene happens, all parties must discuss boundaries and limits, and all MUST consent to participating in CNC.

I've been around a long time, and I promise that if having this conversation negatively impacts "the vibe", you need to be more creative. I negotiate boundaries EVERY TIME, and I've never had a bad CNC scene.

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@SilencingTrees I have never seen it as something that stands alone, personally. When I think of financial domination, I think of it in the context of part of being a responsible and #EthicalDom. My role is to help my subs become stronger people, so guiding their financial responsibility is one of the 8 areas of wellness required to make them strong, focused, healthy people.

Q: What was your first scene like as a Dom?

My first scene as a solo #Dom was at my first #IML. It was a carefully negotiated scene that centered on #bondage and intensive #BreathControl. I'm not going to go into a lot of detail about the scene itself because it was the definition of #edgeplay and I don't want anyone to think it was #SafeAndSane to do without extensive training and knowledge.

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I’ve said this before and stirred up quite a hornet’s nest on other platforms. If you claim to have no limits, you’re wrong. “No limits” is a fantasy. There are much healthier ways to express complete confidence and trust in a Dom than to tell them they can do whatever they want to you. An #EthicalDom will correct such an error in judgment. But not all doms are ethical.

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