I don't know who needs to hear this, but keeping the channels of communication open with multiple Joyfriends can sometimes require a scheduling and email assistant.

Balancing my self-care needs with the desires/needs of my Heauxtation+friends+family+WORK can be a calendar challenge to the nth degree.

(Right now, it looks like I won't visit my family until the Fall.)

I don't apologize for spending time with other folks (we all have other folks to spend time with) but I do become keenly aware when too much time has passed between quality time being spent together. (Huh. That syntax was janky.)

Anyway, self-care is just as important (if not more so) as maintaining intimate bonds.

#PolyToot
#FeministAndPoly
#ENM #Shenanigans

Him: If it's ok, I'll arrive closer to 2 pm because I'm so excited.

Me: That's fine. Until I'm ready, you'll just have to wait and contemplate the virtues of Patience.

#Shenanigans
#FeministAndPoly #OnALeash

[looking at the updated roster]

Well, dang.
Things got uncomplicated fast.

Looks like getting Benson made me make some choices about my roster. Released a few and have a much leaner bench this season.

Heh.

#ENM #SoPo #FeministAndPoly