Why I'm #SoPo and date as un-heteronormatively as I can. (Shout out to the Joyfriends+ Heaux I spend time with.)

Because *who* has time to be a Feminist Studies tutor for her partner at this stage? Not me.

Yesterday I told a girlfriend that at 53 I'm basically dating myself and shenanigans-ing who I want, when I want, if I want.

I've got a drivers license to get and a passport to renew. Nobody has time for comp het nonsense.

#FLR #FeministPoly #ENM #DatingInTheBay #LadyBachelorWithADog

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8dMGhDx/

Checking in on the active roster today by sending a series of Signals. Just because one is #SoPo doesn't mean the Heaux don't need feeding+watering.

#Heauxtation
#ENM #FeministPoly
#Shenanigans

Update: unlike a rom com, clear communication has saved the day. No silly 'misunderstandings' on my watch.

He feels abashed for his dramatic message and we both feel good that we, indeed, want to see each other again.

#ENM
#DatingInTheBay
#FeministPoly

I take a perverse enjoyment in the sudden silence from a man when he realizes my #ENM is not theoretical, and no, I really don't want to be his girlfriend or His Woman (yuck).

It's sort of a thrill.

Adrienne Rich asks what it would be like if women actively *chose* their sexual praxis without the coercion of patriarchy.

Well, this is one facet of what it would look like.

#SoPo
#FeministPoly