#FetChat #A3
- the feel and weight of it as a physical manifestation of a choice
- to publicly show commitment
- handy connection points for leashes, yokes, or all manner of toys

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Q3 Why might someone want to wear/give a collar? What are some benefits? #fetchat

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#FetChat #A2
Ownership, commitment, dominance, control, a sign of pet play, or even a public signal of a Ds relationship in public.

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Q2 What are some concepts collars represent?
#fetchat

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#fetchat #A1
Yes, I've both worn a play collar in scenes and sessions, and 'virtually' worn a collar as a sign of my long term commitment to a Dominant.

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Q1 Have you ever worn or gifted a collar in a BDSM context? #fetchat

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Despite starting my exploration being the one tying, it's been a long time since I've felt anything but sub.
#fetchat #A2
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Q2 Would you consider yourself a Dom, sub, or switch?
#fetchat

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#FetChat
I'm no expert, but I would want them to understand enough about their body to understand how to be clean and prepared, and to be as relaxed and trusting and open with their partner.

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#fetchat

Q3: What are important steps to take when it comes to preparing someone physically for anal play/pegging?

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#FetChat
safety and health, cleanliness and hygiene, pleasure ...

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#fetchat

Q2: What are some common concerns someone who wants to be pegged might have? What about someone who wants to peg their partner?

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#BDSM #pegging

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#FetChat
I think about being penetrated by a strap-on dildo or sex toy.

It's a nice thought.

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#fetchat

Q1: What do you think about when you hear the word “pegging?”

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#FetChat
portrait photography and watercolours

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#fetchat

Icebreaker:

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#FetChat #A4
It could just be me, but I like to think of sex separately from service-oriented scenes or situations. It can be whatever the partners need or want it to be, but I wouldn't want that dynamic to lessen the focus on service.

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#fetchat

Q4: What does sex look like in a service-oriented scene? Does it change depending on the role of the service-oriented partner (Dominant vs. submissive)?

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#BDSM #servicekink

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#FetChat #A3
Dominant service tasks: monitoring & managing health/fitness goals, life-coach mentoring

submissive service tasks: writing, editing, video editing, web services, cleaning, car or home maintenance, regular errands

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#fetchat

Q3: What are some of examples of non-sexual service-oriented actions/tasks for Dominants/Tops to perform? What about actions/tasks for service-oriented submissives/bottoms?

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#FetChat
Thinking of service-oriented Dominance or Topping feels to me like it could encompass more variation. I can think of it as deriving pleasure from receiving service, or from providing Dominance as a service.

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#fetchat

Q2: Does your perception change when you are talking about service-oriented Dominant/Top vs. a service-oriented submissive/bottom?

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My understanding of Service Kink is deriving pleasure from the act of being of true service to another, particularly to a Dominant. Not just a performative service within a scene, but when the service itself provides the pleasure.

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#fetchat

Q1: What do you think of when you hear the phrase Service Orientation or Service Kink?

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#FetChat #A5

It was super effing sexy

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#fetchat

Q5: What are the benefits of #PublicPlay?

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#FetChat #A5
Discuss it with your partner, asking them if they would be interested, and sharing what you might find exciting or arousing about it.
Talk about the details as there are so many variations of how to play with chastity and orgasm control

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Q5: What are some ways to introduce T&D to your play?

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#teaseanddenial

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#FetChat #A4
One 'con' that comes to mind is that it can seem like a default or a 'must-do' and it may not be of interest to every dominant or submissive.

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#fetchat

Q4: What are the Cons of T&D or chastity play?

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#FetChat #A3
It is simple, direct and a very personal type of submission to offer -- to give up control over one of your most basic urges, and to have your Dominant partner not just accept it but play with it.
it can be done in person or over distance.
and it feels amazing!!

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#fetchat

Q3: What are the Pros of T&D or Chastity play?

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#teaseanddenial

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#FetChat #A2
Well, as a submissive I can only say that I love this type of play as it is such a powerful expression of such an intimate and overwhelming control, and it is a challenge that just keeps getting more and more difficult.

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#fetchat

Q2: Why Do People Engage in T&D play?

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#teaseanddenial

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#FetChat #A1
Tease and Denial play is when the submissive is physically or mentally teased and stimulated and aroused, only to be denied release, over hours, days, weeks, or longer...

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#fetchat

Q1: What is Tease & Denial play?

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#teaseanddenial

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