#ghostingfriends is #rude but some people really deserve to be rudely treated when they're being #assholes So, today, my boundary is: If the friend is being a #fuck then they get #Ghosted until they figure out, on their own, they did #wrong

I'm not their parent. I do not have time to teach adults how to use their #manners and my patience is so thin that I don't owe them #kindness

#ghostingfriends #mentalhealth

this past month i've decided to just block two "friends" off my contacts - both have problems and i feel for them - but their vibe is just grating - one is in his thirties and lives at home and complains nonstop that his parents are magas and the other is an alcoholic who won't or can't stop drinking and he's also a leftist, which i respect, but he's just like subtly condescending - it's a tough balance - choosing who you can invest in and who you can't