I also feel like this isn’t a complete introduction. Here are my next top 5 ships:

#WuLian (#XieLian and #WuMing)
#PolyHuaLian (ex. #HeHuaLian, #HuaYinLian)
#WangXian
#MoShang
#XiYao

Again, interesting power dynamics (god/follower, dom/sub, creator/king, privileged/disadvantaged) and gay men I can headcanon as trans/autistic/acespec.

Xiyao is the one that breaks the pattern a little here - only autistic HCs for them, no trans ones - but their dynamic is just SO good.