Listen to about three minutes of this, starting at 36:10. It’s such a good way of describing something that’s at the very core of making long-term relationships possible. Or happy ones, anyhow.

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ezra-klein-show/id1548604447?i=1000593427667

#DanSavage #EzraKlein #LTRs #Relationships #HowToMakeLoveStay