Now are those pebbles that make it less smooth and sometimes unpossible to be "just me" residue of #inzernalizedableism or of #sexualviolence or the experience of #classism as a longtime #unpaidcarer. Lots of trickling epiphanies on all fronts as I keep unmasking... I may differ from you in that my childhood experience was very sexist. So that layer may carry some extra weight for me.