Bestie: I don't like to lead with my identity as a D-type.
Me: Me, too.

[Long pause]

Him: Yes, you do.
Me: Me? No! I mean, I let it be *known* but it's not like it's the first thing I throw out there.

Him: Girl, it enters the room before you do.

Well, okay then.
At least I'm consistent.

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The last six months of actively seeking a poly & kink relationship have taken their toll on me, and I have come to realise that it might never happen.

I share a few thoughts about this.

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https://musingsofaswitch.com/moving-forward/

I see there has been a little bit of interest in my personals post looking for a DDlg dynamic.

I guess that is a post I have written in the past, and based on my current experience I'm not sure that it is something I will continue to look for in the near future.

I think I might need to remove the post from rotation of "in case you missed it" posts

#ICYMI #DDlg #Daddy #DaddyDom #Dynamic #Kink #Kinky #KinkDating #Relationship

In light of recent events in my life, I feel as though poly and kink dating is no longer something that I have the desire to pursue in the foreseeable future, I have chosen to deactivate my Fetlife account for the time being, maybe in time I will reactivate.

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I feel like this deserves a follow up, but I am also acutely aware that I do not need to justify my feelings to anyone.

So I will just leave my words as is without any justification, if you want the details I can share them privately, or maybe look out for a blog post (if the desire to write appeals to me)

https://kinky.business/@musingsofaswitch/110031492188583676

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If you are still following along for the ride ....

The follow up date was this morning. Things were going well, then something happened, and it has shaken me. I feel like I fucked up what could have been a good thing now. I feel lost right now about the whole situation.

I need to remember that what happened, has happened, and what happens going forward is now out of my control. I don't like the feeling, but it is what it is.

It is just annoying that it is front and centre of my mind right now. I'm hoping this toot enables me to get it off my chest, for now!

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For those coming along for the ride. She responded about an hour ago, and totally loved my response and would like to go out again.

I need to check my calendar. Woot!!!

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Hmmmmm

What is the etiquette for responding to someone after a coffee date, I felt it went well, and if given the opportunity would love to see her again.

When is the correct time to say that? Don't want to rush a response and sound needy, but don't want to delay too long and sound like I'm not interested. What is normal now?

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