"This hurts me more than it hurts you!"

A phrase often used by spankers: but is there any truth in it? I talk about dishing out a #spanking, and methods to reduce hand pain and increase stamina.

New free-to-read post on my #patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/this-hurts-me-it-81897164

#BDSM #kink #KinkEducation

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spank-u-next-a-fetish-bdsm-podcast/id1591197768?i=1000608634798
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#KinkyTrivia for March 2023 is still going. Go to KinkyTrivia.net to learn more about it and play to win one of these prizes! #TheDungeonStore #kinkeducation #BDSMtoys #kinktoys #BDSMeducation

I’ve got a lot of long form writings on rope, bottoming and switching for rope, and rope education that I want to update and make available to folks who might find them useful.

I’m just not sure if I should I put them on Kinkography to keep everything in once place or put them on a separate site that’s more education focused than content/porn focused. The other site already exists, I just haven’t updated it in years.

#ropeEducation #ropeWriting #shibari #kinkEducation

Hey friends! I've been writing some articles on kinky experiences/ opinions/ education and I think this one is worth a good read if you identify as a bottom (new OR experienced). Note that this article is my own personal perspective. There are many nuances to these and each situation is unique. I would encourage you to find your own red flags and vetting processes for tops and I hope this article sparks some thoughts on the matter!

https://kinkhouseofo.com/index.php/2022/12/17/7-red-flags-to-look-for-in-tops/

#bdsm #kinky #kinkeducation

Seattle! My cock and ball torture workshop, called "Stronger Than You Think" returns to Gallery Erato on December 4 from noon to 4 PM.

Tickets are still available, though this event usually sells out: https://www.strangertickets.com/events/131036330/stronger-than-you-think

This is a compilation clip of CBT moments from some of my videos over the years. Enjoy!

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#BDSMK #bdsmcommunity #bdsmespaña #kinbakulove #kinbakuart #ropecommunity #shibarilove #sexawareness #bodyawarness #kinkeducation