I'm not against women, but I'm not against men either.
I'm not a feminist - I'm a humanist.
In an ideal world we wouldn't divide our society and all its issues into we-them and pitch sex and genders against each other. We would focus on finding solutions and fix the problems. In an ideal world.
Follow The TinMen on social media - thank them for the info and for leading the way.
#mentoo #equality

Perfect 4.0 Student Rejected From University Just For Being White Rapist

“I just never thought I would be rejected on the basis of being a Caucasian rapist, especially when my father raped someone at the same college”

#TruthHurts #MenToo #humour https://www.theonion.com/perfect-4-0-student-rejected-from-university-just-for-b-1850544909

Awesome!!! Datta boy!! Proud of you, Johnny 😘
#JohnnyDeppIsALegend #JohnnyDepp #MenToo #JusticeMatters #cannes
https://www.thecut.com/2023/05/johnny-depp-got-a-seven-minute-standing-ovation-at-cannes.html

Oh I got stuff up my sleeve!
More promo for some, less attention for others. More focus on some topics, no more focus on others. Feel the changes coming.
Free the mind.
Leveling up!
#activism #writerscommunity #PoliticsToday #MenToo #AntiFeminist #Promoters #Friends2Support #love

#Femsplaining: When a woman, with only a look and a barely audible snort, let's you know how mad at you she is, for once again failing to read her mind, thus inadvertently confirming that you still do not love her enough to not sleep on the couch tonight.

#RandomThoughts #MenToo

@atomicpoet

as a #MaleSurvivor of #SexualVictimization I often want to use the tag #MenToo but I rarely do because it has largely been appropriated by "Men's Rights" misogynists.

I'm pro #hashtag and I use a lot of them but I also see the flaws when using them.

what's an alternative?

#SayGoodbyeToCrazy! Why? Because it works.

*I only earn royalties on the paperback version, so BUY IN PAPERBACK at Amazon: https://amzn.to/37bBqWZ

#narcissist #borderline #histrionic #NPD #BPD #HPD #HighConflictDivorce #ParallelParenting #PAS #AbuseHasNoGender #MenToo

Prosecuting #FalseAccusers and other opportunistic perjurers doesn’t discourage real victims from coming forward to report #abuse and #SexualAssault. It discourages and disincentivizes other malicious liars and forms of #Crazy (e.g., #NPD, #BPD, #HPD and #ClusterB variety pack individuals).

The really crazy ones (i.e., entitled to the point of being delusional, pathologically #grandiose and believers of their own bullshit/not-a-victim victimhood) will still falsely accuse even after having their lies disproven (see #AmberHeard).

All persons who make #FalseAllegation should be forever flagged in law enforcement and court databases. They should also be required to prove their claims with tangible evidence before ex parte restraining orders and arrests can be made.

The real victims of #FalseAllegations are the #FalselyAccused. Not the characterologically disturbed (people with bad character) and pathological liars who falsely report abuse for attention, revenge, money, celebrity and other kinds of personal gain.

Consequences matter.

#AbuseHasNoGender #MenToo #narcissist #borderline #histrionic

Vous parlez de #féminisme et on vous a déjà répondu "mais les hommes aussi" pour ne pas vous considérer vos propos ? Après le #notallmen, parlons du #mentoo 👇

It happens. It's real. Don't do it.

The momentary good feelings will quickly drop away. Just like the needles on the Christmas tree in January.

#narcissist #borderline #histrionic #AbuseHasNoGender #MenToo #narcissisticabuseawareness

#MentalHealth #MentalIllness #MentalHealthAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #PTSD #CPTSD #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #MeToo    #MenToo #RecoveryPosse #Healing #SelfCare #BipolarDepression #Anxiety #Depression #Neurodivergent #ADHD #ActuallyAutistic #Mastodon

#MentalHealth #MentalIllness #MentalHealthAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #PTSD #CPTSD #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #MeToo    #MenToo #RecoveryPosse #Healing #SelfCare #BipolarDepression #Anxiety #Depression #Neurodivergent #ADHD #ActuallyAutistic #Mastodon #Introduction #COVID19 #COVID #CovidIsAirborne

Yes yes YES! I do this all the time. Who wants to be triggered anyways ?

#Mentalhealth #MentalIllness #MentalHealthAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #PTSD #CPTSD #DomesticViolence #MeToo #MenToo

#internationalmensday
#mentoo

#InternationalMen'sday
#mentoo

Hello! My name is mystic & I was diagnosed with #borderlinepersonalitydisorder, #anxiety, #depression, & #CPTSD in my early 20's. I'm still waiting to be assessed for #ADHD. I know something else is there. To cope in this life, the trauma and everything I have endured to this day, I don't know how I do it but I'm still alive so koodos to me! I'm still alive & breathing.

#mentalhealth #mentalillness #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #metoo #MenToo #Audhd #actuallyautistic

Giving a #narcissist, #borderline, #histrionic or #psychopath a second chance to "be better" after they've consistently abused you without remorse isn’t evidence of your forgiving nature. It’s evidence of your #codependency and likely unresolved #ChildhoodWounds.

There’s no going back to #lovebombing land. It was a con job (and probably included lots and lots of your other favorite “jobs.”) That person is never coming back because she/he never existed in the first place.

In reality, you're giving the #NPD/ #BPD/ #HPD is another chance to break you down more than they already have to the point you no longer have the will to leave. Or another chance to create another hostage -- I mean child. Or a chance to set you up with a #FalseAllegation of #DomesticViolence to punish you for “abandoning”/rejecting them.

Instead of being be excited by the lie that “things will be better,” be insulted.

They're insulting your intelligence. Again, this is a #CONJOB. I know it's tempting to believe things can go back to the way it was before they took off the mask. But that's the thing. The abusive monster is the reality. The adoring love bomber is the mask.

Or, you can give it a try.

But don't be surprised if they become even nastier, more controlling and blame shiftier than they were before. YOU were going to LEAVE THEM. How are THEY supposed to TRUST YOU now!?!

You're going to have to prove your commitment to them all over again. How?

While the NPD/BPD/HPD is usually short on details for how you can accomplish this, the shit they'll expect you to swallow/do to prove your devotion to them is endless.As in, it’s mission impossible.

This is one of the biggest classic mindf-cks NPD/BPD/HPDs perpetrate. You agonize over ending the relationship because of how horribly they treat you. Then they flip it around. Don't take the bait!

#AbuseHasNoGender #MenToo

#HappyVeteransDay and thank you for your service to . . .

The dads who’ve had their service record used to portray them as killers in family court . . .

The dads who’ve lost their kids to parental alienation while
the family courts turn a blind eye . . .

To the men whose NPD/BPD/HPD spouse or ex made false
abuse allegations and had their careers destroyed because command is more
concerned about PR than these soldiers . . .

And the men who’ve suicided due to
these issues and many more.

Veterans Crisis Line * Dial 988 then press 1 * text 838255 * http://veteranscrisisline.net
#MenToo #MentalHealth #AbuseHasNoGender

#NarcissistDictionary: "I'm sorry you feel that way" is #NPD/ #BPD/ #HPD for "F--k your feelings."

Typically, a #narcissist, #borderline or #histrionic doesn't feel remorse or regret for the hurt, pain and destruction they perpetrate on their victims. Their inability to take #responsibility for their actions, lack of #empathy and a #conscience and tendency of #splitting, #BlackAndWhiteThinking and #EmotionalReasoning make it virtually impossible.

The only time these individuals feel #sorry is when they feel sorry for themselves. For example, when they finally experience a consequence for their #antisocial behavior. Or, they don't get whatever it is they've been lying, scheming, manipulating and bullying to obtain.

Saying "I'm sorry you feel that way" isn't an #apology. It's an abdication of responsibility. Basically, the message is, "Your feelings are your problem, not mine." If the NPD/BPD/HPD smirks while saying it, they're most definitely not sorry. They gloating and delighting in having inflicted pain upon you.

*Please note, while I don't know it for a fact #AmberHeardIsALiar said "I'm sorry you feel that way" to #JohnnyDeppWon, I just know that it's true (to paraphrase a running Bill Maher segment).

I chose one of #AmberHeard's many #smirk photos because her smirks are the smirkiest smirks. The arrogance, contempt and disdain oozes from the corners of her mouth. In addition to being a #PathologicalLiar, #FalseAccuser and perpetrator of #DomesticViolence, she's now officially a #deadbeat. Apparently, she's hiding out in Europe claiming to be a homeless person. Her argument being, the Virginia court can't collect a judgment from her is she is stateless. In other words, DEADBEAT.

#AbuseHasNoGender #MenToo

I made this meme in 2016. It's still one of my favorites. Is it the hairless cat hurtling through space and time.

#UnconditionalLove doesn't mean tolerating #abuse. Love does NOT conquer all. Many clients believed their relationship with a #narcissist, #histrionic or #borderline ex was #truelove-#soulmate stuff.

In reality, these relationships are usually a combination of unresolved childhood issues, #codependency, #RepetitionCompulsion and #traumabonding, not #TrueLove. You can resolve your codependency issues, but you can't love or pray the cray-cray away.

And watch out for flying cats on your way to the exit!

#AbuseHasNoGender #MenToo #NPD #BPD #HPD