These rigid ideas of gender are everywhere and I want everyone to recognize them without extensive theory or debate

The reply connects femininity in men to homophobia for humor. The original poster is upset the couple are acting outside traditional gendered roles.

This is how #mysogyny affects #men. Being seen as feminine isn't beneficial to him as womanhood and girlhood are viewed as weakness and hated. He cannot openly connect with his children without being misgendered even as cisgender man. #MisplacedMysogyny is another face of #toxicMasculinity and is especially (en)forced on men of less privileged groups.

This is a common type of #racializedMysogyny where (racist misogynists) call black women manly especially in success. Being seen as manly is not beneficial for her relationship, because the stigma of homophobia in black men makes. It is not beneficial for her carrear, because the stigma of 'aggression in men' works double for black people historically. This is an attack to invalidate her identity and success.

#Intersectionalism #intersectionality

@FirstProgenitor
hatred is blind and privileges of identity only protect you to the extent you are seen
Hatred clouds our listening too, hastiness tempts us to exclude those unfamiliar as allies, those she sees as men. That intersection wasn't linear enough for her perspective so she latched on to the option of ignorance.

#blackAndWhiteThinking #identityRecognition #oneStruggle
#patriarchy #misplacedMysogyny