manic · @maniczombie
6 followers · 4 posts · Server gaygeek.social
AboveFrome · @mendipfury
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Aucraptor · @Elenyafinwe
239 followers · 410 posts · Server queer.group

Dear and /#enby people. Beware, on your opacity turns from 0% to roughly 20%. Be prepared to be perceived.

#transmasc #mspec #trans #transdayofvisibilty #tdov

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Aucraptor · @Elenyafinwe
212 followers · 521 posts · Server queer.group

I really want to connect more with / people. I see so often here (I love you, you're great) but it makes me feel a bit isolated as an in my experience. I would love to see more from people with lived realities closer to mine. Please boost and say hi, if you feel the same.

#transmasc #mspec #transfemme #agender #enby #trans #transgender #queer #nonbinary

Last updated 2 years ago

Juice/Tex · @juice_tex
37 followers · 150 posts · Server mastodon.lol

Who's excited for Bi+ Health Awareness Month in March??

#bihealthmonth #bham #mspec #bisexual #pansexual #omnisexual

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CornwallVRS Tootbot · @OverCornwall
8 followers · 712 posts · Server airwaves.social
CornwallVRS Tootbot · @OverCornwall
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Sally Strange · @SallyStrange
1336 followers · 17656 posts · Server eldritch.cafe

Bi/pan/omni/otherwise multisexual lesbians?? Yes!!!!

No citations, but know they exist in plenty and will be supplied eventually.

Multisexual lesbians, or mspec (on the multisexual spectrum which includes bi, pan, omni, ply, & more) are simply people who experience queer attraction to women and also experience attraction to more than one gender. Since we're not TERFs around here, we get that there are basically infinite gender possibilities, so that shouldn't really blow your mind or make you angry (2%). And if you're saying "THEY DON'T EXIST" (3%), then you're already on the TERF train to fascism town. That's eliminationist rhetoric.

Mspec was kind of an unfortunate choice for an abbreviation because the counterpart is monosexual. Monosexuality, like heterosexuality and being cisgender, are the default in USian society. Some people negatively purely out of that kneejerk "I'm not straight I'm normal" reaction, but those folks get over it pretty quickly. There are also people out there who react with frothing, irrational, sometimes verging on violent rage at the concept of lesbians not necessarily being monosexual.

"Let women have this one thing," they say, and "You're going to make men think they have a chance with lesbians, which results in harassment." Sometimes they say "you're invalidating me." If you've paid any attention to TERFs and homophobes (but I repeat myself) then you'll see similarities between them and these exclusionary LGBT gatekeepers, often called exclus for short. Trans women are said to invalidate the womanhood of cis women just by existing. Trans women are going to allow men access to lesbians, resulting in harassment. Etc. But just like trans women have been there, not just in but building and shaping lesbian culture, so too have multisexual queers. Some of us are lesbians, get used to it. (I'm not, but some are. I am a dyke though.)

There is actually a lot more to say, about how the policing of the borders of womanhood is always an exercise in white supremacy because the dominant model of gender was devised by white supremacists who thought that the delineation of gender roles according to binary sex was a feature of superior, complex civilization. But since I accidentally erased ~1000 words before, I'll leave it for another time.

#queerDiscourse #queer #lesbian #bi #pan #mspec

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Sally Strange · @SallyStrange
1074 followers · 15582 posts · Server eldritch.cafe

Do you know what means?

#mspec

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B Archer · @B_Archer
90 followers · 167 posts · Server tech.lgbt

, possibly retired. I used to do tech support for small e-commerce sites, but now I’m working on learning Linux and I’m a newb which is great!

This account is especially for connecting with people who were in where I facilitated a support group for + and people. I also answer to due to from and to .

I’m now in and may sometimes toot about politics.

#introduction #disabled #secondlife #bisexual #bi #mspec #intersex #hyperandrogenism #pcos #bigender #arizona

Last updated 2 years ago

STOP Monosexismo · @stopmonosexismo
13 followers · 2 posts · Server mstdn.social

🟪 : es el término paraguas para las orientaciones no-mono, es decir, para aquellas orientaciones dirigidas hacia más de un género. La forma para incluir a las orientaciones románticas es "pluri" o "pluri-orientaciones"

🟨 Una de las banderas para las pluri-orientaciones (o ) fue creada el 9 de octubre de 2015 por una persona anónima. Se desconoce el significado oficial pero es probable que sea una combinación de los colores de las banderas , y .

#polisexual #bisexual #pansexual #mspec #pluri

Last updated 2 years ago

Aucraptor · @Elenyafinwe
-1 followers · 44 posts · Server fandom.garden

Saw someone claiming that is the sole attraction to non-men and that and are not valid. Let’s unpack that.

First and foremost: labels suck. Period. Don’t do that. Otherwise you’re just an asshole. Don’t tell people how they have to label themselves just because your definition of a labels differs from theirs. Labels are not holy grales that have to be kept pure at all cost. What do you gain from it? Nothing but misery. A definition can never cover 100% of one aspect. Never.

Furthermore: non-men is not the hot take you think it is. It’s forcing people into a# binary that may not fit them. It’s plain and reduces , , and identities to a “third gender”, to women lite. Hell, fuck off with that. Eww. I’m not woman lite. I hopefully don’t need to explain why it’s hurtfull to think of those identities as a “third gender”.

What’s wrong with mspec lesbians? If they’re attracted to women then why can’t they label themselves lesbians? Your own has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.

What’s wrong with bi lesbians? There is not one true definition of lesbianism and there are lots and lots of lesbians in history, who are/were attracted to different genders as well.

Rest assured, another person will always know themselves and therefore their labels better than you will ever be able to.

#lesbianism #mspec #bi #lesbians #gatekeeping #genderqueer #misgendering #inter #agender #genderfluid #nonbinary #gender

Last updated 2 years ago

Queuedpotato · @queuedpotato
20 followers · 113 posts · Server mastodon.lol

RT @polisexualidad@twitter.com

Las plurisexualidades no somos dañinas. Formamos parte de la comunidad LGBTIA+ les guste o no. Y sí , borrar "ply pan omni" es NBfobia, además de Plurifobia.

🐦🔗: twitter.com/polisexualidad/sta

#polysexual #polisexual #pansexual #pansexualidad #mspec #plurisexualidades

Last updated 2 years ago

Elenyafinwe · @hobbitdragon
60 followers · 178 posts · Server fandom.garden

Saw someone claiming that is the sole attraction to non-men and that and are not valid. Let’s unpack that.

First and foremost: labels suck. Period. Don’t do that. Otherwise you’re just an asshole. Don’t tell people how they have to label themselves just because your definition of a labels differs from theirs. Labels are not holy grales that have to be kept pure at all cost. What do you gain from it? Nothing but misery. A definition can never cover 100% of one aspect. Never.

Furthermore: non-men is not the hot take you think it is. It’s forcing people into a# binary that may not fit them. It’s plain and reduces , , and identities to a “third gender”, to women lite. Hell, fuck off with that. Eww. I’m not woman lite. I hopefully don’t need to explain why it’s hurtfull to think of those identities as a “third gender”.

What’s wrong with mspec lesbians? If they’re attracted to women then why can’t they label themselves lesbians? Your own has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.

What’s wrong with bi lesbians? There is not one true definition of lesbianism and there are lots and lots of lesbians in history, who are/were attracted to different genders as well.

Rest assured, another person will always know themselves and therefore their labels better than you will ever be able to.

#lesbianism #mspec #bi #lesbians #gatekeeping #genderqueer #misgendering #inter #agender #genderfluid #nonbinary #gender

Last updated 2 years ago

Elenyafinwe · @hobbitdragon
60 followers · 178 posts · Server fandom.garden

TIL that apparently are a topic for discourse??? C'mon people, chill. Leave those people in peace.

#mspec #lesbians

Last updated 2 years ago

Lena with the Very Good Toots · @sheeep
54 followers · 60 posts · Server eldritch.cafe