People confuse avoidants with narcissists, because they have a high narcissistic trait to give counter blame that “sounds” legit and rational, but is actually used to undermine the other person and their basic needs. Why? Because they feel inferior when given feedback or feel blamed. No, they aren’t usually conscious of even feeling inferior. They mask this with over confidence and counter blame.

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