There are many things to say about how to look for red flags in a man. I was told I was a "nice" guy but I still managed to hurt people. Watch out for lots of attention which is not actually about the object of attention. I also went for those who were a bit vulnerable. It meant they had to depend on me. I could be in control. And mild micky taking was me nudging them to gratify me. I was awful. https://mensgroup.com/nice-guy-syndrome/ #nicemen #vulnerablewomen