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SS 399: We Go Meta on Swinging and Making the Sausage… and talk Sex Toys – from Friday Night Delights from February 5th, 2021
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#podcast #podcasts #sexpositive #nonmonogamy #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmono

My partner, Greg, and my best friend, Ulf, and I drove to the Warrumbungles last night to look at the stars.

I only had my phone with me instead of a proper camera. Greg took this picture by increasing the exposure time and balancing the phone on a thermos of tea.

We sat out for about an hour before having to drive home, because I was driving and needed to make sure I'd be awake enough to get us all home safe.

We talked about astronomy, spirituality, Ancestors and my Aboriginality, our friendships, star dust, and the state of the world. We laughed, Greg cried (he's such a delicate man and I love the strength of his vulnerability), and I discovered that even though he and Ulf have been to Australia multiple times and joke about "everything is trying to kill you lol", they really don't have a sense of how dangerous this country can be:

"there's a look out 500m down this trail, let's just go down there!" (in a National Park at 1am with no hiking gear, let alone night hiking)

It was amazing, and I'm so glad I was able to share it with these two men that I love to the moon and back.

#stars #NationalParks #Warrumbungles #Astronomy #relationship #LongDistance #LongDistanceRelationship #NonMonogamy

I feel like I am always going about talking to and meeting people online the wrong way.

I do not know whether I am being too forward with people and overstepping some personal boundaries. Or whether I am not forward enough and people lose interest in talking with me.

When is the correct time to share face and/or body pics with someone online? At what point do you ask someone local out for coffee? When do you just accept that a person isn't interested in pursuing something further?

I have so many questions and confusions that I'm just not sure what to do about the situation. If it is all too complicated, maybe I should learn to be content as a poly person in a monogamous relationship.

#Polyamory #NonMonogamy #Dating #Relationships #Dynamics

The fun part of polyamory/non-monogamy, is when you go to your partner's birthday, and end up kinda hooking up with a complete stranger in front of two of your partners and a metamour.

All three of whom were giggling saying we looked cute. (Don't worry, spoke to each to ensure no boundaries were being crossed).

#polyamory #NonMonogamy #EthicalSlut #NoReallyIAmSuchASlutSometimesAndItsGreat

kitchen table/egalitarian polyamory is a popular goal that can't in my experience be reached.

relationship anarchy makes so much more sense to me. give me someone who enthusiastically chooses every day to be with me over feeling obligated to tend the feelings of eight different people

#polyamory #relationshipanarchy #nonmonogamy :placaPoliamor2:

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check all that applies to you:

#RenFaire #Kink #BDSM #Fetish #NonMonogamy #Polyamory
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Lilith isn't used to sitting in laps that have testicles in the way, and she doesn't understand why she can't just make biscuits in Greg's lap willy nilly..

Although, it does look like she's dealing with the disappointment pretty well..

#CatsOfMastodon #KittensOfMastodon #cats #kittens #relationship #LongDistance #LongDistanceRelationship #NonMonogamy

In my best Pippin impression:
"I've got one partner, yes… but what about second partners?
Doing the elevenses?
Afternoon tearoom trade?"

"I don't think he knows about second partners, Pip."

#NonMonogamy

I duck out for a half hour to drive my housemate to work, and get home to discover my spot has been usurped!

#NonMonogamy #relationship #LongDistance #Dog #DogsOfMastadon

Kudos to the Durham County Library for offering a collection of YA books related to polyamory! I wish I had learned about these ideas so much sooner.

https://durhamcounty.bibliocommons.com/list/share/1681764029/2325799731

#ENM #polyamory #YA #nonmonogamy #DurhamNC #books

"There’s the obvious- if we’re all getting laid or not as is our preference, we’re going to be much happier people. But that deeper level is how do we bring this skillfulness to all of our relationships?"
https://t.co/w1r9O3KmK5
#GreatSexLife #polyamory #nonmonogamy #DrLizPowell https://t.co/iXmzQAkilj

Tomorrow morning I'm driving to Sydney to pick Greg up from the airport!

And he's staying with me for 3 months!!

It'll be the longest time we've been able to spend together in person.

#LongDistance #LongDistanceRelationship #NonMonogamy

Good evening Fediverse. Hope everyone is well at the moment.

I have an interesting take at the moment. Over in Kik land, a man has asked if we (my wife & I) would be interested in some shared bedroom play with them. However only he has a Kik account.

So my wife & I started a private group with this man (and his wife) and they are interested in catching up via video and in person, however given she doesn't have a Kik account, I'm a little sceptical as to whether they are a legitimate couple or not.

I guess given he hasn't pushed for bedroom play, and is open to a video chat means we can at least verify them up front makes it easier. But it is also hard to gauge whether we are compatible if not everyone is in the private chat.

Anyone like to comment? Thoughts?

#PolyDating #ENM #NonMonogamy

Oh! Shoot! I forgot to mention that almost as soon as we got home, just as we were about to unpack and take a shower, Partner pushed me down on to the bed, stripped me naked, and fucked me.

It was quick. I came in about a minute, and once he'd taken care of me, he flipped me over onto my knees at the edge of the bed, and came inside me. So I did get to feel a hot load in me. 😍

That's usually the case after I've played. He likes to fuck me while I still smell of sex with someone else. He'll pull my hair and tell me all about how much he loved watching me suck another guy's cock while he fucks me. Or if he wasn't there, he'll ask me to tell him all about it.

It's incredibly hot. 🤤

#NSFW #ENM #NonMonogamy #Dirty #Slut

The Date Report:

It was (I believe) our third actual date with this couple, but we have spent quite a bit of time with them at other social functions.

Things kicked off with dinner out. It was good, and we talked quite a bit. They booked a hotel in advance, since both of our homes are occupied by other family, and we wanted some guaranteed alone time.

We went to the hotel after dinner, hung out in one of the numerous hot tubs at the hotel, and floated around in the pool for a little while.

We then retired to our room, intending to play a card game, but within minutes, clothes were shed, and myself and the husband were on one bed, with Partner and the wife on the other. I received lots of paddling, face fucking, and had a good orgasm.

The husband and I took a brief break, but I looked over to see Partner with the wife's legs folded up near her shoulders, pounding away at her. He seemed to be taking his time.

1/4

#NSFW #ENM #NonMonogamy

Dear #polyamorous friends, I suggest you block this individual. Follow the link to see what #idiocy that person propagates:

https://mastodon.social/@AmishSuperModel/110455107929094121

#polyamory #nonmonogamy #ethicalnonmonogamy

@AmishSuperModel And speaking as a #polyamorous person, that comment is fucked up. You arnae funny, ye are a wee cunt. #Polyamory #Nonmonogamy #EthicalNonmonogamy

We have a date tonight, with a couple we've been seeing for a while now. The last few times they've stayed over at our place, there have been interruptions.

We decided we wanted an evening away from interruptions, so a hotel room has been booked. 😍

#ENM #Nonmonogamy #TeamDating

I'm up on @selfmagazine talking about why aftercare conversations should be a part of your sex life even if you aren't into BDSM. ➡️ https://t.co/5O7BEi4DmO
#GreatSexLife #SexTherapist #polyamory #nonmonogamy #DrLizPowell #aftercare #BDSM #selfmagazine #aftercare #vanilla https://t.co/aX2vjA5USr

I was so glad to share with Suzanna over at @Bustle about what it means to be solo poly and how it looks in practice. Learn the 6 reasons solo poly might be right for you! https://t.co/ipreJvof6d
#GreatSexLife #SexTherapist #polyamory #nonmonogamy #DrLizPowell #solopoly #bustle https://t.co/3S7cAt6vsY