"Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, PhD., traveled the world mediating conflicts and training people for over 40 years. He said that in every culture people are playing one of two games. One of those games is called 'Who’s right and who’s wrong?' And the other game is called 'How can I make life more wonderful?'"

https://www.nonviolentcommunication.com/learn-nonviolent-communication/nvc-gratitude/

@ByronCinNZ

#NVC #NonviolentCommunication

@meileaben love to see the #NVC book #BeingGenuine :) 😍

Do you know the difference between feelings, needs and strategies? When we know more about these things, we can collaborate, and we can navigate conflicts through safe spaces for all involved.

Learn more about it in our next course: https://t.co/W3PUOY8d5m

#NVC#sociocracy https://t.co/MvHewR8Jj7

Do you know the difference between feelings, needs and strategies? When we know more about these things, we can collaborate, and we can navigate conflicts through safe spaces for all involved.

Learn more about it in our next course: https://t.co/W3PUOY8d5m

#NVC#sociocracy https://t.co/mXw9UEd5Al

Do you know the difference between feelings, needs and strategies? When we know more about these things, we can collaborate, and we can navigate conflicts through safe spaces for all involved.

Learn more about it in our next course: https://t.co/W3PUOY8d5m

#NVC#sociocracy https://t.co/XuQMH6e3Vb

@8petros Yes, there are countless amazing materials and techniques helping groups to deal with inherited issues. I like working with practical resources, like #NVC, like https://communityrule.info/ , sociocracy or @orgs materials.

Still, groups aiming at non-hierarchical internal organization need to want to take this work seriously, and this is the part I saw most difficult.

Anger plus D is danger. (How’d I never realize that?)

Safety first.

Recognize your anger.
You are not your anger. (You’re more💙)
Take space if you need
Breathe w intention. Focus on exhale.
Offer yourself #empathy Really.
Ask yourself: what is the need that’s not being met underneath my anger?
Do you know?
#UniversalNeeds #NeedsLiteracy

Don’t blame the other person. Empathize w them!

Ask for what you need w/o a demand, but from desire for #connection.
Connect first. #NVC #Anger

@RD4Anarchy Quote by Marshal Rosenberg: “ For about 10.000 yers over most of our planet people have been operating according to domination structures , in which some people claim to be superiors & have the right to control others because they know what's best. to maintain these structures, a core component is to educate people with "a language of domination” & to teach people retributive justice… This is at the heart of violence on our planet.” #NVC (non-violent communication)

I often find myself longing to dedicate my time and energy to building and supporting nonviolent organizational systems and sustainable initiatives.

There are skills I'm passionate to use and put into action, but it rarely happens in my daily life.

Perhaps this can be a goal for me in 2023: To establish those practices as my primary work! I'll meditate on it to gather the energy to make it a committed intention. Yay!

#nvc #life #work #systems #dream

I recently got introduced to Non-violent Communication framework.

Its been an awesome, amazing discovery.

It teaches a 4 step communication procedure that dramatically deconflicts communication.

Its had a major impact on how I communicate with others, and the quality of the communication I have with them.

Highly recommended. #NVC

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3601593-non-violent-communication-a-language-of-life

I'm studying a very interesting tool / lens called Spiral Dynamics!

It observes different value systems and stages of human society (and individual) evolution

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiral_Dynamics

I found it in an #NVC Academy course, also talking about the war in #ukraine :

https://nvctraining.com/live-nvc-courses/video-conference/evolution-of-needs-2023

I'm very curious to apply this lens to the #freesoftware ecosystem and see what insights come up!

And to #israel #palestine situation!

Wanna join me?
Check out course recordings & materials & let's talk 🤍

A suggestion out of #NVC #NonViolentCommunication class with #ElenaBrower and #JudithLasater- ask a beloved other- partner, parent, child, friend: “how can I make your life more wonderful today?” #lovingkindness #imaginethat

Dialogue definition = Dia-Logos = Energy communication through people, not just talking 'to' them and arguing points...
(Talk by David Boum, #NVC Non-violent Communication)

#Conflict Resolution by Honoring #Objection and Non-violent #Communication #Consciousness, join the conversation at the #Sociocracy with #Youth and in #Education #Conference: https://t.co/VPvnogWXuI

#conflictresolution #schools #teachers #nvc
@ProgEducat @edualternatives https://t.co/azCj1d5HP3

Sociocracy and #NVC at a Dutch #Democratic #School!

Join us at the 2nd annual #Sociocracy with #Youth and in #Education #Conference: https://t.co/74EI9NU9qS

#children #teachers #leadersoftomorrow #change #childreneducation #youngactivist

@ProgEducat @edualternatives https://t.co/OoLuU9J9Jw

@onrust
Bit of a rant but PRICELESS points if not aware already about caring or good-to-do workers...

Interesting initial comment was part of this... because even if it what was said is slightly +/- I think the base reality is still really true which is
● evident in core roots such as banks or caring... Is it there for example?
I. E . they don't really care and we help proprietary profit/banks as the similar domino effect or 'waterfalls' down to others come from that (or don't)
● habits and force are forced to be replicated from creation of debt and structure of life 'quite a lot' ... (not sure if people see how powerful it is and we dupe kids / adults instead of trying to come out of it).

● AND the good people or caring people *don't recognise* when they are being taken for a huge ride... they thing yhey are operating under pure heaven or something and just complain is an ok normal by them... They are actually ALSO JUST AS IRRESPONSIBLE. This add fuel on fire(s) and all that STEMS from banks (small joke because I'm on a STEM community that might have 0 yo say about money sometimes).

People are ABSOLUTELY THINKING hospitals are for caring more than
●massive vacuums hoovering up money and indirectly killing energy of people or killing by only serving in this proprietary way... and also because there is a different sign out in front of this shop people don't see isn't no different to the matrix template (probably much.much worse that many other things)

So if I'm right- all is for profit *much more* above anything else
(or even *only* for those that? .....no... surely not... caring is at least 10th on list right? Mneh...
●You ask those high up (if you can catch them) or the 'underwriters' (whoever or whatever they are)... ¿underwriters¿ = banks again?

■Would a hospital exist I ask myself if it were not those high up who keep paying themselves ??? ???
You see the homeless people outside right. Do they care? Protesters not rob of there heat outside or some bills hit excuses made?
and 'lack of shelters'... is it not deliberate or bare minimum and also to get people to jump into 'system'?
Would any states really care about you ??? ??? Do they now more then name and number and tax id to take and spend badly in your name?

●So best is if ☆EVERY PERSON☆ CONSIDERS IF THEY ARE NOT INSUDE THAT AND IF THEIR 'JOB' ISN'T INSIDE THIS DELIBERATELY DIFFICULT LEVEL OF MATRIX NOT WORTH IT AT THE END SINCE BEGINNING WAS UNCARING.

^------------ NO NEED READ MORE- JUST ASK YOURSELF THAT ABOVE ----------------------------------

Is caring a close 2nd place to a cold systematic pattern and is it realky practiced at all.. (remember industrial conveyor belt work setups are not really care it could be any object you 'move on' in the system without care for what others are doing and having 0 influence or impact on moving people like packages or arbitrary packages).

●is it not just money as 1st to 100th importance...and then caring only as 1000th in design and when it's too late / bottom of the barrel already by those clueless and just grinded up like FOSS (unless they identify banks as root virus etc and increment A WHOLE NEW SYSTEM / WAY OF THINKING THAT INVOLVES.. LOVE OR CARE AS TANGEBLY MUCH AS MONEY AND TIME EMPTIED ELSEWHERE ) ?

NOT EASY but will enough *will* time invested I believe we as individuals or FOSS or the moss can pull back and really love (care for people) even with a bit of money.

I'm testiment that not everyone wants to learn or invest time in that but it is getting better with #NVC ETC...

( If not sure how to reply, try some of the yes / no answers with ● before each main point - easy it may not be but is worth life to consider / reconsider ! )

The latest The Formae Mentis Daily! https://paper.li/FabioPandiscia/1338132112?edition_id=231e13f0-a0b2-11ed-9537-fa163e6ccaff Thanks to @FrancescoDiFant@twitter.com @PaulEkman@twitter.com @navarrotells@twitter.com #nvc #comunicazionenonverbale

How do we deal with a bully without becoming a thug ourselves?

- Scilla Elworthy
Fighting with non-violence...

Topic = Gene Sharpe's "Dictatorship to Democracy" booklet

#NonViolentCommunication
#GeneSharpe #NVC + CZ subtitles

How do we deal with a bully without becoming a thug ourselves?

- Scilla Elworthy
Fighting with non-violence...

#GeneSharpe #NVC + CZ subtitles

Topic = Gene Sharpe's "Dictatorship to Democracy" booklet

Gene Sharp - Methods of resistance / actions / things to think about etc...

198+ to consider against violence and towards democracy.

How To Start to solve / mitigate / repel / resolve things...

#GeneSharp Booklet #NVC better #Protest