@CoralineAda I asked the anecdote-led confusing question at the end of your excellent #FOSSY2023 talk on #opensocialcompact

I thought of simpler way to ask it:

Most people are accustomed to retributive justice and thus constrict defensively when any of their conduct gets flagged. How can we acclimate people to #restorativejustice such that they can keep a more collaborative, appreciative mindset when complaints about their conduct arise?

If that's not clearer, I'll think of another wording…