I’m on the receiving end of #parentalalienation and it sucks.
#divorce #abuse #domesticabuse #relationships

A Court Ordered Siblings to a Reunification Camp With Their Estranged Father. The Children Say It Was Abusive.
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Family courts are increasingly using programs like Turning Points for Families to treat the disputed psychological theory of parental alienation. But little is publicly known about the programs’ controversial methods.

#Parents #Custody #Kids #Family #Abuse #ParentalAlienation #Courts

https://www.propublica.org/article/family-reunification-camps-kids-allege-more-abuse?utm_medium=social&utm_source=mastodon&utm_campaign=mastodon-post

From @RiotLinguistics via :birdsite:
CW: CSA, SA, Systemic Abuse
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The state "welfare" agency determined that the father sexually abused the children, but the judge decided their mother had brainwashed them into thinking so, and gave cops the right to use force in taking the kids back to their rapist.

If a man claims "parental alienation" in response to his wife or children claiming he sexually assaulted his own children, then 48/50 times he gets custody.

Parental alienation & false memories were designed not as medical diagnoses but as legal defenses for rapist fathers.

The judge outright says the children are their father's rightful property. He criticizes their mother for feeding & clothing them instead of starving them out to force them to go back to their rapist. The judge orders "reunification therapy" for the children.

We live in a #RapeCulture.

We do not live in a culture that hysterically overreacts to #SexualViolence, ESPECIALLY not against children. That's not the real world.

We live in a world where the judicial system and cops drag children back to their rapists by physical force & mental torture.

#Parents #Kids #Custody #Courts #TikTok #Utah #SystemFail #Abuse #CSA #ACAB #ParentalAlienation #FalseMemorySyndrome #Rape

https://newsie.social/@ProPublica/109931271204705848

“How come the kids don’t call?”

Because you neglected them when they were little, and you taught them that it was OK to ignore the needs of those without power.

#parentingtips #ParentalAlienation #parents

#NarcissistDictionary: “Your family needs to #apologize to me.”

#Apology demands are for imaginary slights, innocent misunderstandings and/or in-law boundary adjustments that wouldn’t be a big deal for reasonable normies. This is a power grab and domination move. It can also be a #DARVO and projection tactic. Meaning, the #MeghanMarkleisToxic demands an apology when held #accountable or is #exposed for their bad behavior. The perpetrator expects an apology from the victim.

As such, an apology doesn’t resolve the “issue” because the real issue is the character pathology of a #ClusterB #PersonalityDisorder. In other words, it won’t stop or get better.

Basically, “Your family needs to apologize to me” translates to “Bend the knee; kiss the ring.” And if you oblige their initial outrageous #ego, #ControlFreak, #narcissist, #borderline, #histrionic #VerucaSalt demands, it opens the floodgates for more of the same and far worse.

I’ve worked with families desperate to reconcile with their sons, grandsons, brothers and uncles who’ve married a #MeghanMarkle type. It’s heartbreaking. In many ways it’s similar to losing a family member to a #cult. If you try to defend yourself or point how destructive the relationship is, it “proves” the #NPD, #BPD, #HPD #FalseNarrative grievances. Apologizing to “keep the peace” also fuels the false narrative grievances.

There’s not much these families can do until or unless the “#PrinceHarry” recognizes how they’re being abused, manipulated, exploited, isolated and estranged. Sadly, this usually doesn’t occur until they’ve been #devalued, #discarded and become the victim of a #FalseAccusation of #DomesticViolence and #ParentalAlienation.

However, in #PrinceSpareMe’s case, I suspect he has some Cluster B pathology of his own. In fact, I’m beginning to think it’s a NPD-BPD coupling. In which case, when they finally turn on each other it’s going to get UGLY, or rather, UGLIER.

#AbuseHasNoGender

Might there be persons or a group discussing #ParentalAlienation recovery?

This post challenges a cultural assumption that men willingly walk out on their children and are irresponsible, apathetic parents
https://www.wealthysinglemommy.com/dads-explain-dont-see-kids/

#ParentalAlienation #parenting

#ParentalAlienation Myths
Kids need two #Parents
Kids need #GrandParents
#parenting

#ParentalAlienation
#FamilyLaw
#Divorce

RT @SimonLapierre@twitter.com

In this study, we are looking for women who have experienced domestic violence and who have been seen as “alienating” mothers. To participate or to learn more about the study: padv@uottawa.ca #ParentalAlienation #DomesticViolence

🐦🔗: https://twitter.com/SimonLapierre/status/1587554859405942785

RT @clara_in_Law
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/parental-alienation-factualising-proudman-myth-barnett-clara-jennings/?trackingId=3ukVdHETTUWSoC3LGZLn1Q%3D%3D

The real meaning of #parentalalienation can be found here. share!

RT @joseluissariego@twitter.com

Igualdad anuncia que prohibirá el Síndrome de Alienación Parental en la ley de Infancia
#ParentalAlienation https://m.publico.es/sociedad/4260732/igualdad-anuncia-que-prohibira-el-sindrome-de-alienacion-parental-en-la-ley-de-infancia/amp?__twitter_impression=true

🐦🔗: https://twitter.com/joseluissariego/status/1313896809958445062