Well it's been a few days and I'd been adjusting to her absence, but plat. gf has been struggling in her new relationship. It looks like I'll be picking her up and she'll be moving back in. It's hard to know how someone treats others and responds to boundaries without spending a lot of time together in person. It'll be a bittersweet reunion because I know she's struggled and wanted this to work, but I'd missed her dearly.
#pgf
plat. gf is leaving today, she decided pretty suddenly to move in with a new girl friend out of state. I took her and her new gf out for dinner and we had a good last night together. Having a monogamous girlfriend to focus on her will be a good opportunity for her and better meet her needs, but I'll miss her. She'll be 6 hours away by car, so visits will probably be infrequent. Our time together was so special; I hope we can live nearby again one day.
Since January I've been considering cutting all my hair off. I'd planned to do it last week but I've just cut it into a short bob for a while while I let everyone know in advance. I wasn't too careful cutting the bob since I only planned to have it a week, but I had plat. gf's help with the back and I've been getting lots of compliments on it so I thought I'd share it with y'all
#transselfie #diyhaircut #shortbob #pgf
plat. gf has been on the dating apps and in some dating groups. Sometimes I get to help her send text flirts or meet people she's been interested in. She's more a smooth flirter than a wild one so she never takes my first suggestions. Anyway, I'm finding myself hopeful for this latest girl she's messaging, it's nice to see someone who'll take it slow.
#pgf #vicariousDating
Cosplayed as Rin #Tohsaka from Fate at animazement last week. The character doesn't have hugh heels but I just wanted to be tall. Also the gfs got cat ears here
#cosplay #fateAnime #fateUBW #transCouple #t4t #pgf #catgirlMaid #fcg
#fcg #catgirlmaid #pgf #t4t #transcouple #fateubw #fateanime #cosplay #tohsaka
Google photos made me a relationship progress pic, it doubles as a hrt progress pic for me since I started hormones in January. #t4t #transition #pgf
Idk if I told you, but plat. gf made me proud a few months ago. One of the customers in her line was saying negative stuff about the next cashier over so everyone could hear. She told the customer she refused to scan their items and ring them up. Then when the customer looked to the cashier they'd just been insulting, plat. gf spoke up for them too saying they were also refusing service and a manager was needed to ring them up.
I appreciate her coworked solidarity
#pgf
Plat gf. has always been so caring and loving with me and her kindness has helped me love myself. Recently, she made great strides in having patience in seeking out understanding in others intent on misunderstanding her. It's *amazing* how much and how fast people grow when they have someone willing to understand and accept them as they are. I'm proud of our progress together
#pgf #platonicRelationship
plat. gf met feralGirl
I needed them to realize each other as people rather than an abstraction or phantom. I wanted to prevent them from getting intimidated by assumptions and unknowns. Meeting in feralGirl's apartment, plat gf was anxious. plat. gf was overwhelmed at the depth of my relationship with fg. They like each other and want to collaborate, but I wish fg could've heard plat. gf's beautiful healing laugh at least once
It's relationship growing pains
#pgf #fg
plat. gf moved out taking the last of her personal items. It's stressful and I'll miss her constant shine, but she's not far to visit and everything is looking up. One of us needs to get a reliable car so we can visit frequent, but I'll at least see her in VR often enough :SaberHeart:
#pgf
Today we went out for pizza and ate it on a bench outside the restaurant. A #goose (apparently named William) hissed at us and but at my pizza box until I fed him my pizza scraps. Them when he kept hissing plat. gf chased him away blowing her vaporizer at him. Pic related #pgf #exposingWilliam
All girls sleepover with plat. gf, I think this might be her first one. In another wonderful first, we're gonna paint her new room pink and lavender-purple
Plat gf may be returning sooner than I thought. She's been struggling and suffered a carrear setback, so we'll be able to enjoy a little more time together sooner than I thought. It's bittersweet that her big dreams have to go on hold
Autistic TransFem #communication:
A: i'm autistic.
E: whaT?
A: Huh?
E: ¿huh?
A: wHAT??
E: we're autistic.
#auditoryprocessing #autistic #pgf #communication