Here is my proper #introduction post since I'll now be here full time!!
✨Who are we?✨
💜DID System of ~26 (we're still learning everyone)
💜They/Them
💜Aromantic asexual (changes based on headmate)
💜Neurodivergent
💜Fibromyalgia
💜I love connecting with other neurospicy peeps and systems.
💜We build our headmates into our writing
💜Crochet, paint, sketch, cook, write, videogames
#DID #Dissociation #chronicillness #AuDHD #disabled #Plural #neurodivergent #neurospicy #pluralgang
#introduction #DID #dissociation #chronicillness #AuDHD #disabled #plural #neurodivergent #neurospicy #pluralgang
Mit der Sprache geht es den Bach runter? Ja, den Eindruck habe ich manchmal.
Meine aktuellen Lieblingsfehler:
1. "Für das Land brauchst du ein Visa."
2. "Hast du die Rezession zu dem Hotel gelesen?"
Ich fordere daher eine Visumspflicht für alle, die sich im Sprachenland aufhalten - damit sie nicht ahnungslos in die nächste Rezension hineinschlittern.
So!
#sprache #fehler #grammatik #semantik #bedeutung #plural #deutsch
#sprache #fehler #grammatik #semantik #bedeutung #plural #deutsch
Me. In a red tankini. Holding a carrot dildo. (Like not actually a food product. It vibrates and is lovely)
I'll draw another picture of me using it if I get a enough engagement about it.
So boost away.
Where my bunny sisters at?
#bunnygirl #furry #FurryArt #fursona #plural #transgender #TransArtist #SelfPortrait #DigitalArt #drawing #DrawnOnMyPhone
#drawnonmyphone #drawing #digitalart #selfportrait #transartist #transgender #plural #fursona #furryart #furry #bunnygirl
#introduction
So I've written this out before and I got to 900 words before the mastodon app crashed and got rid of all my introduction.
Attempt 2
__Basics__
Hi! I'm Elliott, the host in this system: The Fox Collective. We are a moderately sized system of 30 ish, however many alters preform internal roles instead of fronting, for example trauma holders and caretakers.
We are autistic and have physical illnesses as well as a list of mental ones. We struggle a lot with communication and emotional permanence and so this account is going to be a journal-style for headmates to improve communication.
If we are going to talk about our struggles, they will be cw'd correctly.
We are 17. We will turn 18 in March. Do not interact with us if you are a "Minors DNI" account.
A lot of us are also trans, and the body will be undergoing medical transition when we can afford it. Our collective pronouns are it / fox / he, in order of preference. Please do not refer to us as they / them, even in a plural manner. It makes many of us very uncomfortable.
__Interests__
We really like foxes if you couldn't tell. And most other animals, especially those with a lot of personality.
We are a very creative bunch with a love of learning, although I do not like being bad at things. Art (both traditional and digital), poetry, design, and knitting are the things we are good at but we also dabble in sewing, baking, coding. We like listening to vocaloid music whilst we work and would listen to video essays if it weren't impossible to find people with "process-able" voices talking about interesting subjects that aren't triggering.
We use Linux. I think that deserves its own paragraph.
We tend to have many wips at one time, and tend to finish them sporadically.
__Etiquette__
We are in the GMT +1 timezone.
We try to respond to things but aren't strong in communication skills across text, we apologise for any miscommunication.
Don't flirt with us. We are a minor and we are taken by our girlfriend.
We sign off posts with the headmate's name and preferred pronouns. Eg: "-Elliott (it/he)"
Interaction welcome, please talk to us
Gonna say it again: WE ARE A MINOR ! Minors DNI please DNI :)
__Tags__
#DIDOSDD #DIDsystem #plural #trans #transgender #pluralgang #neopronouns #poetry #writing #art #knitting #webdev #html #css #autism #autistic #positivity
#introduction #DIDOSDD #didsystem #plural #trans #transgender #pluralgang #neopronouns #poetry #writing #art #knitting #webdev #html #css #autism #autistic #positivity
A bit of introspection leads me once again to question I might be #plural
A person cannot change so much in a month as I have (long story short: mentally I've seen to have reversed to where I was years ago) unless "someone else" is fronting right now right?
And yet every time something changes is always related to changes in my employment status so 🤷♀️
(Seymour and Milo have just confessed their mutual attraction and are getting cuddly on the couch. Milo POV. Totally SFW excerpt!)
“You in this sweater…” he murmurs.
“You like this sweater?”
“Mm-hmm.”
“Roger that. Tomorrow I’m donating the rest of my wardrobe.”
He giggles.
“Including the pants,” I add.
He raises his eyebrows. His thumb moves against my thigh. “Going twenty-four/seven pantsless is a pretty bold move.”
“Yeah, well, cut out the middle man, right?”
He breaks up laughing.
“Sorry,” I murmur. “I’m realizing I quip a lot when I’m nervous.”
“Shut up. It’s cute.” He looks me in the eyes. “So you’re nervous?”
“Mm-hmm.”
“Me too.”
“You are?”
“Of course.”
“Haven’t you done this lots?”
He grins, shows those canine teeth. “I see you’ve clocked me as a slut.”
I giggle. “No, I mean…most people have done this a lot more than me.”
His grin fades a little. “I’ve done this a lot-a lot, yeah. But…it…mostly hasn’t been meaningful.”
“…Really?”
He lowers his gaze. Nods.
“So you…don’t just like me like that. You like me like /that/.”
He doesn’t speak. Just raises his eyes again, with the answer in them.
#writing #WritingCommunity #GayRomance #MMRomance #mm #mmr #nonbinary #NonbinaryWriters #NonbinaryRomance #QueerRomance #LGBTQromance #LGBTQbooks #LGBTQwriters #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #UrbanFantasy #AmWriting #cozy #plural #ND #queer #WIP #romance #QueerJoy #mlm #fluff #fluffy #GrumpySunshine
#grumpysunshine #fluffy #fluff #mlm #queerjoy #Romance #wip #queer #nd #plural #cozy #AmWriting #urbanfantasy #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtqwriters #lgbtqbooks #lgbtqromance #queerromance #nonbinaryromance #nonbinarywriters #nonbinary #mmr #mm #mmromance #gayromance #WritingCommunity #writing #takeonme
(A fairly spoilery moment in Milo's character development, but I feel like sharing it anyway. He's an Episcopal priest and a living saint according to all who know him, who falls in love with and tries to heal a traumatized, rough-around-the-edges ghost-whisperer, and accidentally uncovers his own trauma in the process. Here he's having a sort of flashback review of childhood family dinners growing up in a traditionalist Catholic household. It's worth noting that, to this day, Milo talks to God and hears God talk back. [This excerpt, I think, kind of works as a response to #PennedPossibilities 27—how does your MC self-soothe?])
They are screaming at each other again. I wish I could make them stop.
At least they are not screaming at me.
They hardly ever look at me at all.
Divine Mercy. The Lord looks at me always, from the painting on the kitchen wall, with his big, beautiful eyes. He is so quiet and kind. He listens. He never, ever screams.
Stay quiet. Don't draw their attention out of turn.
Stay kind, so they can’t bring themselves to hurt you.
When they speak to you, listen attentively. Eyes on them. Nod so they know you are a good boy and you are listening.
Eyes on them. Learn to notice the signs they are going to erupt. Submit. Appease. Make a joke. Disarm. Head off danger at the pass.
Getting tall…don’t stand too tall. Don’t give them a reason to fear you.
Stay their small, sweet, godly boy so they’ll never be angry at you.
Something wrong? Fix it. Hurry. Before they notice. You are smart and resourceful and can fix it before they notice.
You are getting older, wiser. Sometimes they listen now. Mediate. Support. Harmonize. Hold the moral high ground.
Keep the peace. Keep the peace. Keep the peace.
…And maybe, just maybe, if you are good enough and patient enough for long enough, and never ever ask anything for yourself, they will repent and heal and turn toward you and you will finally have a family.
You are strong. You can bear this burden.
...Too deprived. Too disappointed. Too little. Too much.
Surrender your desires to the Lord.
You are my beloved child, in whom I am well pleased. Your reward is in heaven and not of this world.
God is with me. Nothing hurts me anymore.
I can take on the pain of the world. I was born for it.
Milo wants nothing.
Milo needs nothing.
Milo is but a vessel of Divine Mercy.
Milo doesn’t exist.
#writing #WritingCommunity #GayRomance #MMRomance #mm #mmr #nonbinary #NonbinaryWriters #NonbinaryRomance #QueerRomance #LGBTQromance #LGBTQbooks #LGBTQwriters #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #UrbanFantasy #AmWriting #cozy #plural #infj #hsp #ND #CPTSD #ReligiousTrauma #queer #WIP #romance #QueerJoy #mlm
#mlm #queerjoy #Romance #wip #queer #ReligiousTrauma #cptsd #nd #hsp #infj #plural #cozy #AmWriting #urbanfantasy #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtqwriters #lgbtqbooks #lgbtqromance #queerromance #nonbinaryromance #nonbinarywriters #nonbinary #mmr #mm #mmromance #gayromance #WritingCommunity #writing #takeonme #pennedpossibilities
I'm confused. As someone who has 2 close family members with #DissociativeIdentityDisorder previously called #MultiplePersonalityDisorder Where did all of these people with #plural in their bios come from recently? Is this a common perception of other #MentalIllness too? Is it a lifestyle thing? Are people just more comfortable to be seen now?
#OSDD
#DID
#Plurality
#PluralTalk
#pluralgang
#psychology
#psychiatry
#MentalHealth
#psychotherapy
#Therapy
#neurodivergent
#neurodiversity
#dissociativeidentitydisorder #multiplepersonalitydisorder #plural #mentalillness #osdd #did #plurality #pluraltalk #pluralgang #psychology #psychiatry #mentalhealth #psychotherapy #therapy #neurodivergent #neurodiversity
The @NeuroPrideIreland team made us feel really welcome as part of their #NeuroPrideDay event this evening, letting me talk about #Plural representation and what that means to us. Thank you all so much! #pluralgang
#NeuroPrideDay #plural #pluralgang
Mostly i'm seeking community there, help traveling since we care for cats & dogs and long distance travel by car can be very tiring for us so. safe places to stop along the way for rest. so we don't get in an accident (because of course no trains).
cohabitation or neighbors would be helpful since we are most comfortable living with other humans and like to do communal meals and sharing of resources where possible.
#housingisaright #autistic #plural #nonbinary #agender
Hey, you.
Yeah, you. C'mere.
Here's a Lifehack for ya.
Stay weird, queer, and be something for right-wingers to fear. >:3
I'm rootin' for ya, pal! Be you and be awesome!
🌈💙🌈💙🌈
#queer #LifeHack #lgbtqia #lgbtq #PluralGang #plural #therian #otherkin #trans #nonbinary #furry #fediverse
#queer #lifehack #lgbtqia #lgbtq #pluralgang #plural #therian #otherkin #trans #nonbinary #furry #fediverse
Hello and awesome day to you, cute stuff!!
I have made this area of the #Fediverse a safe place to be yourself, no matter who you are or what you're into. Any time you're with me, I'll make sure you feel able to be yourself without masking or having to pretend you're "normal" (whatever that means). No matter if you're #lgbtq, #furry, #otherkin, #plural, #babyfur, or anything else.
You are welcome here, and you will always have my love and hugs.
Have a great day!!
💙💙💙
#fediverse #lgbtq #furry #otherkin #plural #babyfur
Habe einen Reisepodcast gehört. Die muttersprachliche Podcasterin sprach immer wieder von "Büssen" und sagte sowas wie "Nimmt [sic] den Roller, wenn ihr von A nach B wollt".
Außerdem fielen Sätze wie "Ihr dürft euch mit Mückenspray einsprühen, damit blabla".
Es war schwer auszuhalten.
Ich bin froh, dass ich in einer Bubble lebe (sowohl real als auch virtuell), in der die meisten Leute ordentlich bis (sehr) gut sprechen, uff.
#grammatik #stil #imperativ #plural #sprache #deutsch
Some of the many dogs in my head represented as a pointillism piece with gel pen on paper.
Please ignore tags:
#dogs #dog #dogzone #stippling #traditionalart #pointillism #pendrawing #dissociativeidentitydisorder #did #plurality #dogart #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthart #plural
#dogs #dog #dogzone #stippling #traditionalart #pointillism #pendrawing #dissociativeidentitydisorder #did #plurality #dogart #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthart #plural
Hey you all,
we hope that all Multis will have a great weekend.
Sascha
#Plural #Multi #Pluralgang #DIS #OSDD
#plural #multi #pluralgang #dis #osdd
Just gonna shoutout some cool groups of creatures:
#plural #pluralgang - Y'all are amazing and I believe in you! Your experiences are beautiful to me, I hope you enjoy your time with your headmates!
#therian #otherkin - Your experiences and feelings are downright magical. I am one of you and even I can't believe how awesome we are! Nonhumans rock!!
#Furry - We are one of the most inclusive and wonderful fandoms around. I'm so proud to be a furry! No matter how you furry it up, you ROCK!
💙💙💙
#plural #pluralgang #therian #otherkin #furry
(Reclusive ghost whisperer Seymour is crashing with his new colleague, recently ordained Episcopal priest and unconventional exorcist Milo, until the two of them can find a way to neutralize a demonic presence that's taken over Seymour's house. Despite Seymour's trademark misanthropy, an awkward little friendship is starting to bloom.)
I catch him looking at me again. Not at my eyes, for once. “Okay...do I, uh…have something on me or…?”
Milo’s eyes widen. “I’m so sorry, no…I keep looking at your hair.”
“My hair…?”
“I guess you could say I’m neurodivergent in some unspecified way and sometimes I become preoccupied with things.”
“…Like my hair?”
“It’s pretty. It’s very dark and shiny and I like the way the cut frames your face and kind of swoops over your eye and conforms to the shape of your head in the back.”
“Oh. Uh…thank you…?”
“I’m sorry if it makes you uncomfortable. I have to remind myself it’s unsettling for people if you stare at them. Because personally I never mind it. In fact I think it’s strange that most people seem afraid to look at each other. Anyway…I like your hair. But I’ll try harder not to stare at it.”
“It’s okay,” I hear myself saying.
He blinks. “…Is it?”
“I mean…it’s not a big deal or anything.”
“No, I know it’s weird. I was bad about it when I was younger and people really didn’t like it.”
“I don’t, uh…I don’t really mind.”
“…Really?”
“Yeah. It’s fine.”
We lapse into silence for a moment. He’s still stealing glances at me, but seems even shyer now, despite the permission—keeps looking away when our eyes meet.
“Do you…like having your hair brushed?” he asks out of the blue.
“Uh…I guess? Are you…you saying…you want to…?”
“I think it might get it out of my system. But I know that’s weird, so it’s completely okay if you’d rather I didn’t.”
“…You want to brush my hair.”
His fingers flutter against his knee. “I feel like it might resolve the fixation. But it’s totally okay if you don’t want me to. Actually, no—I’m sorry I asked. It puts you on the spot, doesn’t it? No, no—it’s okay.” He closes his eyes; lays his hand on his chest as it rises and falls in a soft, slow breath: “I can manage this myself…”
“Um…I guess you can brush it,” I hear myself say.
His eyes spring open, rounder than I’ve ever seen them. “Are you sure?”
“I mean…somebody’s gotta do it. If you don’t, I’ll just have to do it myself at some point.”
He giggles. “Um…okay. Thank you.”
“You’re…welcome?”
He pops up. “I have a really nice brush my hairstylist recommended. Let me go get it.”
#writing #WritingCommunity #GayRomance #mm #mmr #nonbinary #NonbinaryWriters #NonbinaryRomance #QueerRomance #LGBTQromance #LGBTQbooks #LGBTQwriters #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #UrbanFantasy #AmWriting #plural #ND #CPTSD #queer #WIP #romance #QueerJoy #mlm
#mlm #queerjoy #Romance #wip #queer #cptsd #nd #plural #AmWriting #urbanfantasy #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtqwriters #lgbtqbooks #lgbtqromance #queerromance #nonbinaryromance #nonbinarywriters #nonbinary #mmr #mm #gayromance #WritingCommunity #writing #takeonme
One thing that's easy to forget, is that because of my BPD/OSDD diagnosis, I am #Plural, and thus part of said group of people I sometimes hate for no specific reason. Heh, that's a bummer. Being part of a community but you hate the community of which you're a member through psychiatric diagnosis. :P Teh at it, for Tehiverse is a system. So there ya go!