fellow polyam people, hlep!
does someone have spoons and want to help sort some newbe me toughts/questions?
maybe even share some positive examples?
hat 1 spoons und möchte helfen ein paar gedanken/fragen von newbe ich zu sortieren?
vllt sogar paar positive beispiele teilen?
Anyone curious how I maintain four partners?
Two are in Japan - I live with one. The other I see at least once a week and text a lot.
Two are in the US - I have weekly calls and text a lot
Despite my therapist not being polyamorous I'm glad she can identify the things that are solely about relationships and not about the fact I have multiple. Because that's really what it's all about. I could be venting about friends and I have multiple friends. She gets it. #polyam
M'n meta is hier en we zijn allebei postbezorger bij POSTNL. En AuDHD. En non-binair. Onze partner heeft een type. Zeg maar. 😂
It amazes me how much I can be in love with multiple ppl. I was raised to think I can only be in love with one person but it never sat right with me #polyam o
Hallo zusammen!
Nachdem ich mich auf social.cologne nicht mehr wohl und sicher fühlte, konnte ich nun endlich auf todon.eu umziehen und ich freue mich riesig, hier zu sein.
Ein paar Worte zu mir:
Ich komme aus #Köln #Nippes, bin #schwul, #Anarchist und #HIV-#Aktivist. Ihr werdet viel zu #NoCopsAtPride, #KinkAtPride, #Homofeindlichkeit und #Transfeindlichkeit lesen.
Ich bin in einer #polyam|en Beziehung mit drei tollen Kerlen.
Es gibt noch zwei weitere Profile von mir. Eines, wo ich alle #kinky und #BDSM-Sachen poste (gerne nachfragen) und @leuchtreklame, weil ich alte Neonreklamen toll finde und diese für die Nachwelt festhalten möchte - nicht nur die aus meiner Heimatstadt.
Ganz besonders gefällt mir hier natürlich das Zeichenlimit von 1312. Das erlaubt mir nicht nur längere Posts; es wird mir auch jedes Mal ein kleines Grinsen ins Gesicht zaubern.
Ich freue mich auf den Austausch mit euch!
#Introduction #koln #nippes #schwul #anarchist #hiv #aktivist #NoCopsAtPride #kinkatpride #homofeindlichkeit #transfeindlichkeit #polyam #kinky #bdsm
Queer poly folks: Which apps, sites, or strategies have you had the most success with when looking for dates? 🤔
I feel like the standard dating and hookup apps (Grindr, Scruff, Tinder, Hinge, etc) aren't super welcoming to poly folks, and Feeld seems to be mostly flooded with M/F unicorn hunters.
#poly #polyam #polyamory #queer #dating
I recommend a book called dealing with difficult metamours by page turner
#polyamory #polyamorous #metamours #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqbooks #polyam
#polyamory #polyamorous #metamours #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqbooks #polyam
#WritingWonders Jul 15
Any kissing and/or intimacy scenes?
I write #romances, so yes, both.
I am a fan of slow burn. In my #sapphicromance TURNING POINT, FMC1 kisses the top of FMC2 head (FMC2's child is missing) at 19%. 1st mutual kiss occurs 42%. But 1st sex, fully described - it's nec to self-discovery theme - not until 78%.
My #polyam erom, WE THREE is also slow burn. 1st attempt at sex gets sidetracked so they talk date#2
#polyam #sapphicromance #romances #writingwonders
Last night was the first Taco Tue in awhile I felt truly normal around my nesting partner. During karaoke someone called us cute after we sang a song 2gether & I was so happy to hear that.
Going to be a year w/ him next wk and it has been mostly anxiety 99% of the time. I realized even w/ my other two partners the 1st yr was also anxiety filled. I hate it but I'm glad this hump seems to be ending. I miss being comfortable around him b4 we started dating #polyam #emotionaldysregulation #ADHDer
#polyam #emotionaldysregulation #ADHDer
Ah, I see. Stormy with a chance of hugs. ❤️
#thenetherlands #netherlands #polyamory #polyam #poly
#introduction #introductory post with some hashtags - feel free to say hello!
Life
#Welsh #Cymraeg
#Hackney #London
#policywonk
#polyam #polyamory #ENM
Hobbies & Nerdery
#photography
#whisky
#books
#coffee
#tarot
#pokemon #PokemonTCG #pokemongo #nintendo
#poppunk #rockmusic #GreenDay #TaylorSwift #MCR #ATC #Springsteen #FOB
#SciFi #Horror
#StarWars
#DoctorWho
#WTNV
#HisDarkMaterials
#7DaystoDie
#Solarpunk
#OurFlagMeansDeath #OFMD
#TheDragonPrince
#introduction #introductory #welsh #cymraeg #hackney #london #policywonk #polyam #polyamory #enm #photography #whisky #books #coffee #tarot #pokemon #pokemontcg #pokemongo #nintendo #poppunk #rockmusic #greenday #taylorswift #mcr #atc #Springsteen #fob #scifi #horror #starwars #doctorwho #wtnv #HisDarkMaterials #7DaystoDie #solarpunk #OurFlagMeansDeath #ofmd #TheDragonPrince
not us finally getting into writing fanfiction to ship Bee and Loona
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1AMeJC1U4E17Tx_DuPKTBzQPxdhxsg4W-gC-tpb5t7h8/edit?usp=sharing
there are exactly two one-offs with this pairing on ao3. if i'm fast, when ao3 lets me make an account i can be the first with a slow-burn going and capitalize huge 😈
#fanfic #fanfiction #helluvaboss #writing #shipping #lesbian #poly #polyam #polyamorous
#fanfic #fanfiction #HelluvaBoss #writing #shipping #lesbian #poly #polyam #polyamorous
▬ #Emoji #Emojis #NewEmoji #NewEmojis
:ablobpride1: :ablobpride2: :amariokartyoshi: :catto: :excuseme: :gnome: :kde: :manjaro: :mariobrosdance: :oops: :theythem: :ultracate: :verifiedbisexual: :verifiedpolyam: :zeldalink:
#Pride #LGBT #PrideLGBT #LGBTPride #LGBTI #LGBTIQ #LGBTIQA #MarioKart #SuperMarioKart #MarioKart64 #Yoshi #SuperMario #Catto #Excuse #ExcuseMe #KDE #Manjaro #MastodonOops #MastodonError ##Oops #TheyThem #UltraCate #Bisexual #Bisexuality #Polyam #Polyamorous #Verified #Zelda
#zelda #verified #polyamorous #polyam #bisexuality #bisexual #ultracate #theythem #oops #mastodonerror #mastodonoops #manjaro #KDE #excuseme #excuse #catto #supermario #yoshi #mariokart64 #supermariokart #mariokart #lgbtiqa #lgbtiq #lgbti #lgbtpride #pridelgbt #lgbt #pride #NewEmojis #newemoji #emojis #emoji
Queer people as well as Black, indigenous and other people of color are explicitly welcome, as are people with dis_abilities.
On the website you can find everything about the meetup, what the venue is like, and what we do to make the event as safe as we can: https://kitchentable.social/events/2023-06-23-treffen/
We're looking forward to seeing you there!
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride
We’ll get together, share stories, give advice where desired, and will just have a fun evening.
Text us if you want to come and we'll tell you where it is.
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride
It’s Pride Month, the CSD Pride Parade in Munich is coming up, and just the night before that we have our June meetup: We’ll get together on Friday, June 23rd, starting at 19:00, in our usual location. It will be our normal fun meetup, plus we’ll be making a few signs for the parade on Saturday.
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride
Queere Menschen sowie Schwarze, indigene und andere Menschen of Color sind ausdrücklich willkommen, genauso wie Menschen mit Be_hinderungen.
Auf der Website findet ihr mehr Informationen darüber, wie das Treffen und der Ort sind, und was wir tun, um es möglichst safe zu gestalten: https://kitchentable.social/events/2023-06-23-treffen/
Wir freuen uns auf euch!
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride
#polyam #meetup #inside #kitchentable #bdsm #kink #munich #queerfriendly #queer #bipocfriendly #pride