Wild how I got broken up with (my gf in LA) and I am in Tokyo to do a DJ gig. At least friends from Kansai will be there too so I don't feel like shit and loneliness. My nesting partner is having a blast with his friends this weekend and I have a little fomo but hoping this event tonight goes well. I also decided to stop drinking for the month so no substances to blur my feelings. #polyamfam

I had a talk with my nesting partner about my feelings on some things and realized that he is way more cool about making this work than I think. My anxious attachment needs to stop. Crazy how I have secure attachment with my other partners but with him I'm anxious. #polyamfam

So far I realized this is the only place I post about my polyam relationships even in a vague way. I don't anywhere else because I don't actually feel comfortable with certain ppl I know reading my shit. #polyamfam

Never thought I'd add another partner. 3 was my max but now it's gonna be 4 (2 in Japan 2 in the US). I think it'll work out. #polyamfam

Love it when I get one of my partners a gift and they wear/use it right away....and then continuously wear/use it. Got a pair of pokemon undies I was scared wouldn't fit my nesting partner and it did. He wore it after our 1 year anniversary day at USJ. 💗💗 #polyamfam

I am a romantic clearly but I've toned it down for years cuz anyone I get with thinks it's too cheesy. Well I'm not gonna stop being cheesy anymore. My current partners can say "that's so gaaay" (we are all in the alphabet mafia) all they want but I know they like when I give them gifts and show my affection. No longer feeling bad about it. #polyamfam

Successful #boardgame times with the #polycule ! Wingspan + Everdell, I'm a sucker for the nature theming.

#Boardgames #polyam #polyamfam #polyamory

#polyamfam

TFW both sides of the polycule drive to the other sides house, thinking that the birthday party is at the others house.
"We're here!"
"Where? We are on the front porch looking for you!"
"Are yall at our house?"
".....we are on the way back!"

Have any of you ever given nicknames to your polycules?

Especially if you're a bit on the nerdy/geeky side

For example if your polycule is composed of trans or non-binary people you could be the League of Extraordinary Genderqueers

Have a polycule of gay males who are just together for the FWB?

The Sex-men

Or is your polycule a closed polyfifdelity group

The Just Us League

Are you in a KTP quad?

The Fantastic Foursome!

Is your polycule made of kink and leather friendly lesbian tops?

Why
The Legion of Domme of course

Feel free to add your own!

#poly
#polyamfam #polyam #polyamory #polycule

So one of my partners was out with a friend today, who then couldn't get a cab because of his unicycle, so my partner phoned her FWB who is an uber driver to pick up her friend, and texts me to share, who bursts out laughing in the middle of a conversation with my FWB about her partners dog, and I text my other partner who tells me about her evening with my metamours.

Sometimes being #polyam #polyamorous is just funny.
#polyamfam

So, when I came up with the PolySaturated Fats idea #polyFats

(🐦🔗: https://twitter.com/SugarCunt/status/1365868575253172226?s=20&t=rtprnXoEXNj9VUuzWPQbfw )

it was to give some anecdotal insight into being very fat and very nonmonogamous.

So here's how it went having a local partner stay the night at my house (where I live with my nesting partner) for the first time (dynamic/etiquette-wise, not slamming-wise.) 🧵 (1/?)

#polyamory #polyamfam #polyam #nonmonogamy #ENM #nonmonomous

My girlfriend's daughter was the cutest in the car earlier.

"My mom's lucky to have such a nice girlfriend like you."

🥰🥰 #polyamfam

I've been running a #scifi #world-building project (aka a #conworld) called #Shadowlack for 20 years. I often use it to test out new technology and techniques. It's essentially furry sparkle dogs in space, so I completely understand if it's not your jam.

I make #art. I write. I have a #polyamfam. I have #cats and will content warn my #reptiles and #isopods. 💙

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