Good evening Fediverse. Hope everyone is well at the moment.

I have an interesting take at the moment. Over in Kik land, a man has asked if we (my wife & I) would be interested in some shared bedroom play with them. However only he has a Kik account.

So my wife & I started a private group with this man (and his wife) and they are interested in catching up via video and in person, however given she doesn't have a Kik account, I'm a little sceptical as to whether they are a legitimate couple or not.

I guess given he hasn't pushed for bedroom play, and is open to a video chat means we can at least verify them up front makes it easier. But it is also hard to gauge whether we are compatible if not everyone is in the private chat.

Anyone like to comment? Thoughts?

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The last six months of actively seeking a poly & kink relationship have taken their toll on me, and I have come to realise that it might never happen.

I share a few thoughts about this.

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https://musingsofaswitch.com/moving-forward/

In light of recent events in my life, I feel as though poly and kink dating is no longer something that I have the desire to pursue in the foreseeable future, I have chosen to deactivate my Fetlife account for the time being, maybe in time I will reactivate.

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I feel like this deserves a follow up, but I am also acutely aware that I do not need to justify my feelings to anyone.

So I will just leave my words as is without any justification, if you want the details I can share them privately, or maybe look out for a blog post (if the desire to write appeals to me)

https://kinky.business/@musingsofaswitch/110031492188583676

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Recent events make me question whether I am a potential Daddy Dom.

If I can't pick up the cues on a second date, how can I honestly be a long term Daddy Dom? If I can't be a Daddy Dom, how can I consider myself a switch and have both submissive and dominant sides to my personality? Am I really a submissive? Am I even human?

What am I really?

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If you are still following along for the ride ....

The follow up date was this morning. Things were going well, then something happened, and it has shaken me. I feel like I fucked up what could have been a good thing now. I feel lost right now about the whole situation.

I need to remember that what happened, has happened, and what happens going forward is now out of my control. I don't like the feeling, but it is what it is.

It is just annoying that it is front and centre of my mind right now. I'm hoping this toot enables me to get it off my chest, for now!

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For those coming along for the ride. She responded about an hour ago, and totally loved my response and would like to go out again.

I need to check my calendar. Woot!!!

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Hmmmmm

What is the etiquette for responding to someone after a coffee date, I felt it went well, and if given the opportunity would love to see her again.

When is the correct time to say that? Don't want to rush a response and sound needy, but don't want to delay too long and sound like I'm not interested. What is normal now?

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