I don't know who needs to hear this, but keeping the channels of communication open with multiple Joyfriends can sometimes require a scheduling and email assistant.

Balancing my self-care needs with the desires/needs of my Heauxtation+friends+family+WORK can be a calendar challenge to the nth degree.

(Right now, it looks like I won't visit my family until the Fall.)

I don't apologize for spending time with other folks (we all have other folks to spend time with) but I do become keenly aware when too much time has passed between quality time being spent together. (Huh. That syntax was janky.)

Anyway, self-care is just as important (if not more so) as maintaining intimate bonds.

#PolyToot
#FeministAndPoly
#ENM #Shenanigans

Slowly, painstakingly, the birds are landing on my December calendar.

#PolyToot #SoPo

Also, I need to stop obsessing over the bird in the bush and start paying attention to the several birds in my hand.

#PolyToot