@Starcross

My comprehensive guide on how to implement effective punishments in D/s dynamic is now up, for anyone who is curious. It's based on my years of reading and experience and plenty of trail and error in my 24/7 TPE dynamic.

A lot of what is easily accessible out there amounts to a listcle of fun play ideas. So, I really wanted to cover techniques for communication and all of the pragmatic points that need to be considered to really make punishment effective, as well as how to really integrate it into the day to day of a dynamic.

There's a bit of something helpful for everyone (hopefully).

https://www.silkenclaws.com/punishment-for-subs-guide/

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So I'm going to be putting together a personal deck of "punishment cards", inspired by the amazing @MindPersephone .

The actual number isn't important but I'm aiming for maybe over 20 at least?

They'll be used to punish me when I'm bad or disobedient, when I'm extra subby and want something to humiliate me, or just because @lyonna wants to. I'll draw a card and, #PragmaticKink allowing, have to undertake what's on it with photographic evidence.

So.... Any ideas what could go on the cards? My kink list is on my profile if that helps. Unfortunately my sexual partners are long distance so it can't be something someone does to me, but potential options include:
* take panties off for the rest of the day
* write something on myself
* fill my water bottle with piss (or at least some piss)
* text my owner pictures of me doing things

I'll share the deck once I've got it locked down too ~~

@SilkenClaws @foxy It's actually something I think about a lot these days since we're really doing a 24/7 thing for the first time, but we're still adults with a normal life that goes on. As hot as it is that I can just grab her and use her for whatever I want, there's obviously gonna be moments where that's just not gonna be fun for either of us. Sometimes her ambivalence about it is fun and hot and the _exact point_, sometimes it's just gonna be a nuisance.

And rules have to make sense and fit into our lives. Even when playing intensely you still have to eat, cook, nurse an upset stomach, feed cats, get cleaning done and stuff. #PragmaticKink is keeping it flowing through that.

Vacation over and my wife is back at work. I'm not letting her out of our arrangement though, but work is work and one needs to be pragmatic, so here's what I hit her with: While at work, she may use the bathroom without asking permission first up to 3 times during the day. But only provided she reports to me the times she's used this privilege when she gets back home.

Also added the proviso that emergencies and keeping-face-while-out situations are allowed subject to evaluation, because I'm not a monster.

#PragmaticKink, ya'll