Rat (she/her) · @TheRatCantRead
274 followers · 501 posts · Server lgbtqia.space

So, I matched with someone who said in her bio, but she goes to concerts unmasked. I get that everything is a risk and sometimes people will prioritize certain high risk activities while still taking precautions in other areas of life, but...I don't know.

Stray observations:
-People wearing masks in their pictures seems to be a sign that they haven't updated their profile in a while rather than indicating that they're still masking.

-There's a pleasantly surprising number of women who are 30+ who openly admit on their profiles that they're recently out as queer and new to dating women, and I both admire and envy their courage.

-I feel like fewer and fewer people bother to write anything on their dating profiles these days. I know people have been complaining about that since the dawn of dating apps, but I feel like it's recently gotten worse? I have no problem messaging people first—back when I was only dating men, sometimes I'd message them first—but I need something to craft an opening message around, even if it's something banal or small.

#covidisnotover #covid #pandemic #coviddating #pandemicdating #lgbtq #lgbtqdating #queerdating #comingoutasanadult #wearamask

Last updated 1 year ago

Rat (she/her) · @TheRatCantRead
242 followers · 236 posts · Server lgbtqia.space

I just did a reading about this situation that said I shouldn't waste my loyalty on people who don't appreciate me, and honestly, the reason why I only had one date with this woman, as gorgeous as she is, is because she was kind of condescending about my being newly out, and that rubbed me the wrong way at the time. So I'm going to interpret this as I shouldn't like her back. Also, if she's not doing the basics of wearing a mask in indoor public spaces, I can't imagine a relationship or a friendship going very far with her.

#tarot #covidcautious #coviddating #pandemic #pandemicdating #lgbtq #queerdating

Last updated 1 year ago

aminarra_she_her · @aminarra
6 followers · 38 posts · Server home.social