@carbsrule_en but but but it's more comfortable to get into, and feels safe, other people pay for most of the infrastructure and it's not like the driver has to deal with the consequences✨ #rightToComfort #aita (/s)

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• develop your emotional intelligence so you can tell when you are hiding your emotions with the excuse that you are being "#rational;"
• be transparent about #power, so that everyone understands who makes the final decision and/or how the final decision is made before you dive into the #conflict.
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via Tema #Okun https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/comfort--fear-of-conflict.html #entitlement #bias #whiteSupremacy #whiteness #racism #coloniality #meritocracy #antiRacism #alphabetMafia #rightToComfort

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• labeling emotion as "#irrational" or anti-intellectual or inferior, which means failing to recognize the importance of emotional intelligence;
• pretending or insisting that our point of view is grounded in the "#rational" or the intellectual when we are in fact masking our emotions with what appear to be rational or intellectual arguments.
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via Tema #Okun https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/comfort--fear-of-conflict.html #entitlement #bias #whiteSupremacy #whiteness #racism #coloniality #conflict #antiRacism #rightToComfort

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• labeling emotion as "irrational" or anti-intellectual or inferior, which means failing to recognize the importance of emotional intelligence;
• pretending or insisting that our point of view is grounded in the "rational" or the intellectual when we are in fact masking our emotions with what appear to be rational or intellectual arguments.
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via Tema #Okun https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/comfort--fear-of-conflict.html #entitlement #bias #whiteSupremacy #whiteness #racism #coloniality #conflict #antiRacism #rightToComfort